I was iffy of doing this challenge again because I’ve done this so many times started approaching getting some form of progress but then I felt like I hit a wall and usually I didn’t have anyone to really show me inperson what I was doing wrong, or I would not be able to f close. I would fall back and focus on other things
My game is horrible at the moment over 6 months of no practice and just focusing on animation and film.
I’m starting over and doing weekly phases.
Week 1 is opening, Next week will be transitioning.
Week 1 approach 5 people make eye contact and get their eye color.
Went to the seminary today and approached and opened some girls on campus.
Woman 1: Carmen had dark brown eyes.
Woman 2 Dark Brown eyes.
Woman 3: Danielle, Dark brown eyes.
woman 4 Dark brown eyes
Woman 5: Tracy , dark brown eyes.
It’s pretty simple I’ll do random conversations with 5 strangers tomorrow.
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Today I was gonna do random conversations with 5 strangers but I decided to follow the rules of the game mission so I did get fashion recommendation from 3 strangers.
I went on the road and decided to head over to the university in Kingston. I am worried of being judged and how dumb it is to ask for fashion advice in Kingston pretty sure people will just tell me to go to Half Way tree.
I aak the first girl she simply tells me no. I get on campus approach some girl and she tells me she doesn’t know. I sit down with a group of kids and ink some drawings Im doing for a comic project. I finish up and try to start up some conversations with some girls to not much avail.
Got on the bus this girl came sat next to me and I started talking to her.
Me: so you sat here beside me to get my attention?
Her: *laughs ummm… no.
Me: What do you study.
Her: Economics
Me: I’m sorry to hear that.
She laughs,. To me this is horrible, but I’m rusty. I couldn’t think of anything else to say so I just shut up for the rest of the trip.
I get to half way tree ask a woman, for advice, she simply says no. I finally head to the seminary ask one of the girls and she recommended (surprise surprise) Half Way Tree.
I’m iffy with going though this again…
I went on the road and decided to head over to the university in Kingston. I am worried of being judged and how dumb it is to ask for fashion advice in Kingston pretty sure people will just tell me to go to Half Way tree.
I aak the first girl she simply tells me no. I get on campus approach some girl and she tells me she doesn’t know. I sit down with a group of kids and ink some drawings Im doing for a comic project. I finish up and try to start up some conversations with some girls to not much avail.
Got on the bus this girl came sat next to me and I started talking to her.
Me: so you sat here beside me to get my attention?
Her: *laughs ummm… no.
Me: What do you study.
Her: Economics
Me: I’m sorry to hear that.
She laughs,. To me this is horrible, but I’m rusty. I couldn’t think of anything else to say so I just shut up for the rest of the trip.
I get to half way tree ask a woman, for advice, she simply says no. I finally head to the seminary ask one of the girls and she recommended (surprise surprise) Half Way Tree.
I’m iffy with going though this again…
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GSR
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Re: Starting Over: New 30 Day Challenge
Today I was gonna do random conversations with 5 strangers but I decided to follow the rules of the game mission so I did get fashion recommendation from 3 strangers.
I went on the road and decided to head over to the university in Kingston. I am worried of being judged and how dumb it is to ask for fashion advice in Kingston pretty sure people will just tell me to go to Half Way tree.
I aak the first girl she simply tells me no. I get on campus approach some girl and she tells me she doesn’t know. I sit down with a group of kids and ink some drawings Im doing for a comic project. I finish up and try to start up some conversations with some girls to not much avail.
Got on the bus this girl came sat next to me and I started talking to her.
Me: so you sat here beside me to get my attention?
Her: *laughs ummm… no.
Me: What do you study.
Her: Economics
Me: I’m sorry to hear that.
She laughs,. To me this is horrible, but I’m rusty. I couldn’t think of anything else to say so I just shut up for the rest of the trip.
I get to half way tree ask a woman, for advice, she simply says no. I finally head to the seminary ask one of the girls and she recommended (surprise surprise) Half Way Tree.
I’m iffy with going though this again…
I went on the road and decided to head over to the university in Kingston. I am worried of being judged and how dumb it is to ask for fashion advice in Kingston pretty sure people will just tell me to go to Half Way tree.
I aak the first girl she simply tells me no. I get on campus approach some girl and she tells me she doesn’t know. I sit down with a group of kids and ink some drawings Im doing for a comic project. I finish up and try to start up some conversations with some girls to not much avail.
Got on the bus this girl came sat next to me and I started talking to her.
Me: so you sat here beside me to get my attention?
Her: *laughs ummm… no.
Me: What do you study.
Her: Economics
Me: I’m sorry to hear that.
She laughs,. To me this is horrible, but I’m rusty. I couldn’t think of anything else to say so I just shut up for the rest of the trip.
I get to half way tree ask a woman, for advice, she simply says no. I finally head to the seminary ask one of the girls and she recommended (surprise surprise) Half Way Tree.
I’m iffy with going though this again…
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GSR
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Day 3
I did the fashion excercise. Dressed up. and went to a crusade with my mom. I approached 2 girls but it pretty much fizzled. SPoke to a bunch of people at the crusade then went home texted some girls I know here and got no response from them. Pretty uneventful day.
I did the fashion excercise. Dressed up. and went to a crusade with my mom. I approached 2 girls but it pretty much fizzled. SPoke to a bunch of people at the crusade then went home texted some girls I know here and got no response from them. Pretty uneventful day.
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Sorry for the delay. Today I went to Schools Champs which is a huge event in jamaica, seeing that we produce the fastest athletes in track and field.
My mission today was to give 4 women compliments.
I got to the stadium. went in the grand stand and started shooting (I brought my camera because I had an idea to get a sphere panorama shot of the entire stadium.
I opened the first girl on her smile took a shot of her and her friends. Asked her what she was promoting because they all wore the same outfit.
Next set was another group of girls promoting 361 degrees a shoe brand.
I get the girl to pose for a photo and compliment her on her looks.
After constant shooting I went to stands to get something to eat, saw this girl with the sweetest ass I've seen in a while. I head over to the sandwich stand to get a hamburger I opened this lady in the line, she started telling me about her daughters in florida and introduced me to her nieces. Lo and behold HBBigBooty comes over as well. She's a friend of the HBFlorida. But she's under 18 so I cant do anything. HBFlorida skips the line to get her food I speak to the next girl whos with her boyfriend.
We both complain about the wait we've been in the line for over 20 minutes. I talk to the boyfriend, he 's an alumn of my high-school he tells me about an event coming up this weekend.
We finally get food I compliment the cashier on her smile, she looks at me and just shakes her head. I head back to the game and after that head home.
My mission today was to give 4 women compliments.
I got to the stadium. went in the grand stand and started shooting (I brought my camera because I had an idea to get a sphere panorama shot of the entire stadium.
I opened the first girl on her smile took a shot of her and her friends. Asked her what she was promoting because they all wore the same outfit.
Next set was another group of girls promoting 361 degrees a shoe brand.
I get the girl to pose for a photo and compliment her on her looks.
After constant shooting I went to stands to get something to eat, saw this girl with the sweetest ass I've seen in a while. I head over to the sandwich stand to get a hamburger I opened this lady in the line, she started telling me about her daughters in florida and introduced me to her nieces. Lo and behold HBBigBooty comes over as well. She's a friend of the HBFlorida. But she's under 18 so I cant do anything. HBFlorida skips the line to get her food I speak to the next girl whos with her boyfriend.
We both complain about the wait we've been in the line for over 20 minutes. I talk to the boyfriend, he 's an alumn of my high-school he tells me about an event coming up this weekend.
We finally get food I compliment the cashier on her smile, she looks at me and just shakes her head. I head back to the game and after that head home.
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Day 7
I’ve been flaking on this girl ill call her HBBooty for the past couple months. Her birthday passed this week. So I tell her I’ll come over and chill. She tells me she gets out of work at 6 we decide to meet up at half way tree and head over to her place.
I get to half way tree which is like the center of Kingston, wait for a couple minutes and finally she arrives. We get on the bus and catch up. Honestly I suck at game so most of my convo ranges from reminiscing on church days and just getting her to talk about herself while I don’t mess it up.
We get to her crib I see a car parked she walks in to the room and I see an old lady from the church I used to go to.
She was renting out her room. We sit down and she eats some food. I suggest we go in her room so I could show her the album design I did for this reggae artist. She says no, we basically sit and watch the news while the old lady is in the living room. I talk with the old church sister, make her laugh, but still Im a bit annoyed. I suggest we meet up over the weekend and she says she’ll be busy all weekend. (Doors closed.)
I get bored and decide to leave, she walks me out of the house to the sidewalk and I catch a bus back to my house.
Biggest waste of my time in my life.
I’ve been flaking on this girl ill call her HBBooty for the past couple months. Her birthday passed this week. So I tell her I’ll come over and chill. She tells me she gets out of work at 6 we decide to meet up at half way tree and head over to her place.
I get to half way tree which is like the center of Kingston, wait for a couple minutes and finally she arrives. We get on the bus and catch up. Honestly I suck at game so most of my convo ranges from reminiscing on church days and just getting her to talk about herself while I don’t mess it up.
We get to her crib I see a car parked she walks in to the room and I see an old lady from the church I used to go to.
She was renting out her room. We sit down and she eats some food. I suggest we go in her room so I could show her the album design I did for this reggae artist. She says no, we basically sit and watch the news while the old lady is in the living room. I talk with the old church sister, make her laugh, but still Im a bit annoyed. I suggest we meet up over the weekend and she says she’ll be busy all weekend. (Doors closed.)
I get bored and decide to leave, she walks me out of the house to the sidewalk and I catch a bus back to my house.
Biggest waste of my time in my life.
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Hey man,
Why was a waste of time. Did you not learn anything? I think your too worried, about having a certain outcome, dont worry about that. Let go of the attachment to outcome, and enjoy the process.
Why was a waste of time. Did you not learn anything? I think your too worried, about having a certain outcome, dont worry about that. Let go of the attachment to outcome, and enjoy the process.
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It was a waste because we really didnt do anything no jokes nothing, we just sat I watched her eat, and joked with her landlord.
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Day 8 The Lunar Eclipse
I wanted to catch a shot of the lunar eclipse that night. so I hit some friends up to find out if anyone is doing anything in the night.
I live on a seminary- a Christian institute where people normally go to be pastors and other jobs. I hit up HBNails a girl that lives on the dorms on campus.
Me: you staying up late tonight.
Hbnails: yeah wassup.
Me: Im trying to catch the blood moon tonight if you’re down. Lets go on the roof.
Her: okay sure.
Me: you staying up late tonight right?
Her: yeah of course.
Me: Alright I’lll hit you up later.
I ‘go on campus and see her chilling on the bench with some friends . She walks me to her dorm opens it up and calls her cute friend HBIndie. I get on the roof and hb nails brings HBIndie, we sit and just talk. We joke about partying, the chodes on campus (little do they know Im a recovering chode.)
They’re telling me the guys around me are updateable and corny.
We continue joking around and tickling each other HBNails isn’t ticklish, HBIndie though the opposite. HBIndie is a pisces and HBNails is a cancer so I cold read them. They call up some more of their friends. So its me and a bunch of girls chilling on the roof.
Sad truth, Im not attracted to any of the girls in the least bit. We lay down on top of each other and watch the eclipse. I don’t feel any intimidation or any anxiety at all.
Im not in my head at all because Im not attracted to any of these girls. After I hnumber closing some of the girls I headed home, (adn catching the eclipse of course) I realized I should do this more often have girls around me that I’m not attracted to I felt good because I felt like I made some progress I think its best to just have girls around me in general, they don’t have to be hot, but having them around me at this point says more than any other guy.
I wanted to catch a shot of the lunar eclipse that night. so I hit some friends up to find out if anyone is doing anything in the night.
I live on a seminary- a Christian institute where people normally go to be pastors and other jobs. I hit up HBNails a girl that lives on the dorms on campus.
Me: you staying up late tonight.
Hbnails: yeah wassup.
Me: Im trying to catch the blood moon tonight if you’re down. Lets go on the roof.
Her: okay sure.
Me: you staying up late tonight right?
Her: yeah of course.
Me: Alright I’lll hit you up later.
I ‘go on campus and see her chilling on the bench with some friends . She walks me to her dorm opens it up and calls her cute friend HBIndie. I get on the roof and hb nails brings HBIndie, we sit and just talk. We joke about partying, the chodes on campus (little do they know Im a recovering chode.)
They’re telling me the guys around me are updateable and corny.
We continue joking around and tickling each other HBNails isn’t ticklish, HBIndie though the opposite. HBIndie is a pisces and HBNails is a cancer so I cold read them. They call up some more of their friends. So its me and a bunch of girls chilling on the roof.
Sad truth, Im not attracted to any of the girls in the least bit. We lay down on top of each other and watch the eclipse. I don’t feel any intimidation or any anxiety at all.
Im not in my head at all because Im not attracted to any of these girls. After I hnumber closing some of the girls I headed home, (adn catching the eclipse of course) I realized I should do this more often have girls around me that I’m not attracted to I felt good because I felt like I made some progress I think its best to just have girls around me in general, they don’t have to be hot, but having them around me at this point says more than any other guy.