Starts Now--Jan 6 2014--Smoothcall ?? and ans-7 PM Pacific

[Smoothcall]

Gentlemen, start your questions!

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[MagneticVibe]

What's up Smooth!

[Smoothcall]

What's up Smooth!

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[MagneticVibe]

Smooth,

I've only gotten k-closes and never SNL during club/bar game. I just dance around the girl and hope she digs me, is there an easier way to Lay a chick at a loud place?

MagneticVibe

[Stiegl]

Hey Smoothcall,

I’m struggling with the building an emotional connection phase when I first meet a girl at a bar. I can open them pretty well, my DHV stories are have them fairly interested, and then I get into qualification and she is answering my questions and even asking a few back. But I haven’t been getting numbers, I’m talking to girls for 15 minutes and then get told “come find me later and talk to me some more”.

What are some topics that you find common among women in the qualification/emotional connection stage? What is your plan of attack, and what do you consider to be the key to building that emotional connection where she thinks you’re different/special and wants to see you again?

I'm hoping maybe you can give me an example of two so I can see what it is supposed to look like and I can hopefully use that as a starting point.

Thanks

[jumpman50512]

Hey Smooth

I need advice. The past two girls I have messed around with has gone bad. We never hooked up. First girl we were both drunk she wanted to have sex but i just could not perform. Happened twice. After that she did not want to come over again. The things that these girls have in common is that at first they would tell me how much they like me and how funny I am. I try not to text alot.. but after I tell them that I like them they just seem to stop talking to me and say their not ready for a relationship. Whats your advice for this not to happen again? I am looking for a gf right now.. but I would mind hooking up with them.

[Smoothcall]

Smooth,

I've only gotten k-closes and never SNL during club/bar game. I just dance around the girl and hope she digs me, is there an easier way to Lay a chick at a loud place?

MagneticVibe

That seems to be about the easiest way I've heard of.

To get good takes learning and work and practice. And usually an environment wherein you can actually talk to the woman.

If you want a short cut to getting face time experience with a woman, try online dating. They come to you pre-qualified to a certain extent.

[MagneticVibe]

We never hooked up. First girl we were both drunk she wanted to have sex but i just could not perform. Happened twice. After that she did not want to come over again. The things that these girls have in common is that at first they would tell me how much they like me and how funny I am. I try not to text alot.. but after I tell them that I like them they just seem to stop talking to me and say their not ready for a relationship.

Jumpman,

Drink enough to get loose, but don't get drunk next time. Never text more than the girl and say I like you because you're demonstrating neediness. Instead give exactly what she gives in words or less. Sometimes you'll need to text more in the beginning to gauge conversation/attraction. Good luck!

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MagneticVibe

[Smoothcall]

Hey Smooth

I need advice. The past two girls I have messed around with has gone bad. We never hooked up. First girl we were both drunk she wanted to have sex but i just could not perform. Happened twice. After that she did not want to come over again. The things that these girls have in common is that at first they would tell me how much they like me and how funny I am. I try not to text alot.. but after I tell them that I like them they just seem to stop talking to me and say their not ready for a relationship. Whats your advice for this not to happen again? I am looking for a gf right now.. but I would mind hooking up with them.

Getting drunk is generally not an attractive thing--double that when it gives you whiskey dick. That said, we've almost all had it, so don't worry. But stop drinking so much when you go out. Many aspiring PUAs forego drinking altogether when they are learning. Maybe you should consider that.

Your question about what you should do regarding what happens when you tell a girl you like her reminds me of an old old joke. A guy goes to the doctor and tells the doctor, "hey, my arm hurts every time I move it like this. What should I do?" The doctor replies, "Stop moving it like that."

Look, if the girl stops liking you after you convey your interest, stop conveying so much interest. You are probably coming on too strong too soon. Have you read Mystery Method? Are you familiar with th stages of seduction? Attraction, comfort, seduction?

I suggest you at a minimum read Mystery Method--not that it is 100% for everyone, BUT what it DOES do is give us a context within which to discuss pick up and what went wrong in your game.

[James Bond]

I've got a question about introducing yourself.

1. How do you introduce yourself and what you do to new women?

2. What's the best way to introduce myself and what I do to women?
Most people think what I do is cool (fly planes.) And it is. I love it and have wanted to do it since I was three.

But then they ask who I fly for. A charter company. Since they have never heard of the company they ask where we fly and what type planes.... We fly to remote places most of the time. Some of which are shitty reserves and it's not always sexy. lol But quite often we fly executive clients (including court parties) so I'd say it's a pretty unfair characterisation.

Trying to describe the plane is quite foreign to most as well, because most people have never flown on a King Air. Some might suggest it's small.... but 12.500lbs is hardly "small."

Obviously I'm enthusiastic about what I love doing. But I think sometimes I forget not everyone is interested in all the technical details....


Wondering what advise you might have for how I could improve.