DJ and Ice: Coaching thread Thursday Nov 21 - DONE

[Ice]

DJ and I are on for Thursday's coaching thread.

Come hang out, have some fun, and post your sticking points you are struggling with.


See you then

[romanianmmaguy]

Got my first d2 at a football playoff game this Friday with the Polish chicks. Established last week when they couldn't come to that one texted a girl yesterday confirming:

Me: Yo homeslice ya guys still cool enough to come to the playoff game friday or are ya wussing out? =D

Her: We comin on friday 100% lol

My Battle Plan:



Lol now really:

1. Be very warm and friendly and hug each one individually tightly. Make them laugh a lot

2. Make sure to "unintentionally" show them off to other girls I know at the game to activate preselection

3.Offer them my grandfathers homemade liquor and joke how "we can't be friends" if they don't enjoy it (It's extremely strong)

4. Avoid boredom at all costs

5. Bring them into the student section and yell and scream and have fun

6. Kino a lot, maybe enter the student section with them arm in arm round the outside???

7. Run the best friend test (any other good routines to back up to in case I can't think of something to say?)

8. At the end make plans for the future. If we win we're going to Giants Stadium so that's a good start but that is only if we win.

Now, what can I add into this war strategy in order to not get friendzoned?

Also, I kind of made the mistake of modestly bragging to a few guys that I was coming to the game with 2 hot Polish chicks. One of my wrestling pals actually asked me if we could share them because I won't "get with both of them." I will get pats on the back and guys will yell out my funny Romanian lasy name, but how do I ward off comments that could ruin the game or just a guy yelling at us without being all like "Say that again and you're done!!! " Same concept as the jean comments we discussed last time?

What if they start talking to other guys? Anything I could do without just flat out giving the guy a death stare?

What to do if cold weather is an issue? I'll be sure to tell em to bundle up before.

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While I am working towards this life improvement, do you have anything for me to keep in mind during my journey? Any idea, state of mind, or just anything that helped you on your journey of improvement?

[Saber]

Hey guys,

As usual, thanks for taking the time to do this.

I was wondering if you guys had any methods for steering conversations / transitioning towards your DHV topics or just effectively bringing DHV's up without coming off as trying to hard. I've been working with one method already but just wanted to throw this out for other ideas.

Thanks for the help

Saber

[James Bond]

Just dropping in.

Thanks ice for the motivation earlier today.

[Ice]

Got my first d2 at a football playoff game this Friday with the Polish chicks. Established last week when they couldn't come to that one texted a girl yesterday confirming:

Me: Yo homeslice ya guys still cool enough to come to the playoff game friday or are ya wussing out? =D

Her: We comin on friday 100% lol

My Battle Plan:



Lol now really:

1. Be very warm and friendly and hug each one individually tightly. Make them laugh a lot

2. Make sure to "unintentionally" show them off to other girls I know at the game to activate preselection

3.Offer them my grandfathers homemade liquor and joke how "we can't be friends" if they don't enjoy it (It's extremely strong)

4. Avoid boredom at all costs

5. Bring them into the student section and yell and scream and have fun

6. Kino a lot, maybe enter the student section with them arm in arm round the outside???

7. Run the best friend test (any other good routines to back up to in case I can't think of something to say?)

8. At the end make plans for the future. If we win we're going to Giants Stadium so that's a good start but that is only if we win.

Now, what can I add into this war strategy in order to not get friendzoned?

Also, I kind of made the mistake of modestly bragging to a few guys that I was coming to the game with 2 hot Polish chicks. One of my wrestling pals actually asked me if we could share them because I won't "get with both of them." I will get pats on the back and guys will yell out my funny Romanian lasy name, but how do I ward off comments that could ruin the game or just a guy yelling at us without being all like "Say that again and you're done!!! " Same concept as the jean comments we discussed last time?

What if they start talking to other guys? Anything I could do without just flat out giving the guy a death stare?

What to do if cold weather is an issue? I'll be sure to tell em to bundle up before.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------

While I am working towards this life improvement, do you have anything for me to keep in mind during my journey? Any idea, state of mind, or just anything that helped you on your journey of improvement?

Are you PAYING for these playoff tickets

If so - I don't know I can tell you much more about how I don't think these chicks are into you, and are just using you. These are the same girls that got you hustling to throw a house party? These girls sound like users.

If you are paying for these playoff tickets I would say plans changed, meet me at hot dog stand day after - and see if they show up.

Bring your boys to the playoff games instead and meet girls there

Preselection will not work in your favour if girls are not feeling you.

I'm not sure what you mean at the end about guys yelling at you - why would they yell at you?

Rom, about the self-improvement - what I said last week about paying attention to the details and lessons in front of you.

[Ice]

Hey guys,

As usual, thanks for taking the time to do this.

I was wondering if you guys had any methods for steering conversations / transitioning towards your DHV topics or just effectively bringing DHV's up without coming off as trying to hard. I've been working with one method already but just wanted to throw this out for other ideas.

Thanks for the help

Saber

Yea, conversational steering. You can do it a few ways:

-OMG transition - OMG I have to tell you about ...
-cut n go - change the subject
-segway - that reminds me of a time when ...

[Ice]

Just dropping in.

Thanks ice for the motivation earlier today.

Hey bond, appreciate the note - happy hunting this weekend.

[romanianmmaguy]

Got my first d2 at a football playoff game this Friday with the Polish chicks. Established last week when they couldn't come to that one texted a girl yesterday confirming:

Me: Yo homeslice ya guys still cool enough to come to the playoff game friday or are ya wussing out? =D

Her: We comin on friday 100% lol

My Battle Plan:



Lol now really:

1. Be very warm and friendly and hug each one individually tightly. Make them laugh a lot

2. Make sure to "unintentionally" show them off to other girls I know at the game to activate preselection

3.Offer them my grandfathers homemade liquor and joke how "we can't be friends" if they don't enjoy it (It's extremely strong)

4. Avoid boredom at all costs

5. Bring them into the student section and yell and scream and have fun

6. Kino a lot, maybe enter the student section with them arm in arm round the outside???

7. Run the best friend test (any other good routines to back up to in case I can't think of something to say?)

8. At the end make plans for the future. If we win we're going to Giants Stadium so that's a good start but that is only if we win.

Now, what can I add into this war strategy in order to not get friendzoned?

Also, I kind of made the mistake of modestly bragging to a few guys that I was coming to the game with 2 hot Polish chicks. One of my wrestling pals actually asked me if we could share them because I won't "get with both of them." I will get pats on the back and guys will yell out my funny Romanian lasy name, but how do I ward off comments that could ruin the game or just a guy yelling at us without being all like "Say that again and you're done!!! " Same concept as the jean comments we discussed last time?

What if they start talking to other guys? Anything I could do without just flat out giving the guy a death stare?

What to do if cold weather is an issue? I'll be sure to tell em to bundle up before.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------

While I am working towards this life improvement, do you have anything for me to keep in mind during my journey? Any idea, state of mind, or just anything that helped you on your journey of improvement?

Are you PAYING for these playoff tickets

If so - I don't know I can tell you much more about how I don't think these chicks are into you, and are just using you. These are the same girls that got you hustling to throw a house party? These girls sound like users.

If you are paying for these playoff tickets I would say plans changed, meet me at hot dog stand day after - and see if they show up.

Bring your boys to the playoff games instead and meet girls there

Preselection will not work in your favour if girls are not feeling you.

I'm not sure what you mean at the end about guys yelling at you - why would they yell at you?

Rom, about the self-improvement - what I said last week about paying attention to the details and lessons in front of you.

No bro, it's a high school game the tickets are like 2 bucks... which brings up a good point, should I spot them?

I also tested them with the party thing, she said that they would not bring anybody and then I said that good because I probably won't have one in the near future

[Ice]

Got my first d2 at a football playoff game this Friday with the Polish chicks. Established last week when they couldn't come to that one texted a girl yesterday confirming:

Me: Yo homeslice ya guys still cool enough to come to the playoff game friday or are ya wussing out? =D

Her: We comin on friday 100% lol

My Battle Plan:



Lol now really:

1. Be very warm and friendly and hug each one individually tightly. Make them laugh a lot

2. Make sure to "unintentionally" show them off to other girls I know at the game to activate preselection

3.Offer them my grandfathers homemade liquor and joke how "we can't be friends" if they don't enjoy it (It's extremely strong)

4. Avoid boredom at all costs

5. Bring them into the student section and yell and scream and have fun

6. Kino a lot, maybe enter the student section with them arm in arm round the outside???

7. Run the best friend test (any other good routines to back up to in case I can't think of something to say?)

8. At the end make plans for the future. If we win we're going to Giants Stadium so that's a good start but that is only if we win.

Now, what can I add into this war strategy in order to not get friendzoned?

Also, I kind of made the mistake of modestly bragging to a few guys that I was coming to the game with 2 hot Polish chicks. One of my wrestling pals actually asked me if we could share them because I won't "get with both of them." I will get pats on the back and guys will yell out my funny Romanian lasy name, but how do I ward off comments that could ruin the game or just a guy yelling at us without being all like "Say that again and you're done!!! " Same concept as the jean comments we discussed last time?

What if they start talking to other guys? Anything I could do without just flat out giving the guy a death stare?

What to do if cold weather is an issue? I'll be sure to tell em to bundle up before.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------

While I am working towards this life improvement, do you have anything for me to keep in mind during my journey? Any idea, state of mind, or just anything that helped you on your journey of improvement?

Are you PAYING for these playoff tickets

If so - I don't know I can tell you much more about how I don't think these chicks are into you, and are just using you. These are the same girls that got you hustling to throw a house party? These girls sound like users.

If you are paying for these playoff tickets I would say plans changed, meet me at hot dog stand day after - and see if they show up.

Bring your boys to the playoff games instead and meet girls there

Preselection will not work in your favour if girls are not feeling you.

I'm not sure what you mean at the end about guys yelling at you - why would they yell at you?

Rom, about the self-improvement - what I said last week about paying attention to the details and lessons in front of you.

No bro, it's a high school game the tickets are like 2 bucks... which brings up a good point, should I spot them?

I also tested them with the party thing, she said that they would not bring anybody and then I said that good because I probably won't have one in the near future

Okay better.

Is 2 bucks worth a lot where you are? If it is, then no.

If 2 bucks isn't worth a lot then I wouldn't be opposed to not making it a big deal and being cool and saying tix are on you.

Consider when timing is right - if they bring up whether they owe you, you can say, it's OK, you can get me back later.


Then either seed a massage or they can buy you a drink when they go out


This is a minor detail though - pay more attention to how the interaction is going.

[romanianmmaguy]

Got my first d2 at a football playoff game this Friday with the Polish chicks. Established last week when they couldn't come to that one texted a girl yesterday confirming:

Me: Yo homeslice ya guys still cool enough to come to the playoff game friday or are ya wussing out? =D

Her: We comin on friday 100% lol

My Battle Plan:



Lol now really:

1. Be very warm and friendly and hug each one individually tightly. Make them laugh a lot

2. Make sure to "unintentionally" show them off to other girls I know at the game to activate preselection

3.Offer them my grandfathers homemade liquor and joke how "we can't be friends" if they don't enjoy it (It's extremely strong)

4. Avoid boredom at all costs

5. Bring them into the student section and yell and scream and have fun

6. Kino a lot, maybe enter the student section with them arm in arm round the outside???

7. Run the best friend test (any other good routines to back up to in case I can't think of something to say?)

8. At the end make plans for the future. If we win we're going to Giants Stadium so that's a good start but that is only if we win.

Now, what can I add into this war strategy in order to not get friendzoned?

Also, I kind of made the mistake of modestly bragging to a few guys that I was coming to the game with 2 hot Polish chicks. One of my wrestling pals actually asked me if we could share them because I won't "get with both of them." I will get pats on the back and guys will yell out my funny Romanian lasy name, but how do I ward off comments that could ruin the game or just a guy yelling at us without being all like "Say that again and you're done!!! " Same concept as the jean comments we discussed last time?

What if they start talking to other guys? Anything I could do without just flat out giving the guy a death stare?

What to do if cold weather is an issue? I'll be sure to tell em to bundle up before.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------

While I am working towards this life improvement, do you have anything for me to keep in mind during my journey? Any idea, state of mind, or just anything that helped you on your journey of improvement?

Are you PAYING for these playoff tickets

If so - I don't know I can tell you much more about how I don't think these chicks are into you, and are just using you. These are the same girls that got you hustling to throw a house party? These girls sound like users.

If you are paying for these playoff tickets I would say plans changed, meet me at hot dog stand day after - and see if they show up.

Bring your boys to the playoff games instead and meet girls there

Preselection will not work in your favour if girls are not feeling you.

I'm not sure what you mean at the end about guys yelling at you - why would they yell at you?

Rom, about the self-improvement - what I said last week about paying attention to the details and lessons in front of you.

And by yelling bad things I mean "HEY ROM!!! When are you fucking those Polish girls!"