DJ & Ice:Positive Affirmations/Setting a WINNING Frame-DONE

[DJNinja]

Thanks to all who participated tonight, it was great helping you set your own Positive Affirmations! With the stuff you've developed over the last few weeks - creating your vision, establishing your values, setting your goals, and now adding your positive affirmations - you're set to get going on your plan to transform yourself into the Ultimate YOU!

If you haven't posted your Positive Affirmations, feel free to add yours, and sometime tonight or tomorrow, Ice and I will help you tweak it to make it more effective.

See you all next week!


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This Thursday (10/24), DJNinja & Ice's Live Coaching Thread is focused on Positive Affirmations and keeping a positive frame. After learning how to create your vision, align it with your values, and set your goals to achieve your vision, Positive Affirmations will help you to establish the right frame to overcome any obstacles and to WIN in life.

If you want a boost in your inner game and get the right tools to keep you focused on WINNING, be there!

Thursday, October 24; 9pm Eastern, 6pm Pacific, 3pm Hawaii time

See you then!

[DJNinja]

Bump, see you guys in a few hours!

[DJNinja]

Tonight, we'll be talking about Positive Affirmations, how to make them, how to use them, and how to make your own!

What are positive affirmations?
Positive affirmations are ways to reinforce your core values, attitudes, beliefs, and mindsets. They are the foundation to strong inner game. They describe who you are and who you want to be.

When creating them, write them in the PRESENT tense, even if it doesn't apply to you yet. This trains your brain to accept your affirmation as your reality, and in time, it WILL happen.

Start the sentences with "I am", because these affirmations are about YOU. You can't control external things like the environment or the people you interact with, but you are in control of how you think. These affirmations reprogram your mind to focus on changing YOU.

When writing them, write them in the positive. This is important. You want to focus on positive growth instead of the negative. For example:

Bad example: I am debt-free.
Good example: I am financially independent.

Almost the same, but see the difference? The bad example focuses on debt, and even though you say "debt-free" it still focuses on debt...which means you are training your brain subconsciously to accept more debt. On the other hand, the good example focuses on being financially indepedent, which you do want. So you retrain your brain to focus on wealth.

Here are mine:

• I am awesome.
• I am the social center. Everyone wants to be around me. I bring joy and awesomeness into people's lives.
• I open with ease. I have an easy time approaching people and starting an interesting conversation.
• I am successful in EVERYTHING that I do. I ALWAYS win. I am a WINNER.
• I am attractive. Women want to sleep with me and be around me. I am hot and women love my shit.
• I am interesting, charming, and charismatic. I am the most interesting person that people will ever meet.
• I am an alpha male. I lead, inspire, and influence others with ease.
• I escalate sexually with ease. I am comfortable touching girls, kissing girls, and turning them on.
• I am INCREDIBLE in bed.
• I am an optimistic person who sees the positive in every situation.
• I am financially independent. Money comes effortlessly to me.
• I am me. I am my best self. I am ALWAYS congruent with my alpha reality.

After putting yours together, print up a copy and put it near your bathroom mirror. Every morning, take a few minutes to look at this list, read through it out loud, while looking at yourself in the mirror. Do the same before you go out. Eventually, you train your brain to start believing in your affirmations, and soon, they will come true!

So start writing yours and posting it here, and at 6pm Pacific/9pm Eastern tonight, Ice & I will look through them and help you tweak yours to be effective!

[romanianmmaguy]

I am funny, I know how to make people laugh
I am adaptive
I am intelligent, I can perceive things others cannot
I am interesting, people see me as a complex person
I have a classy fashion sense
I am tall and good-looking
I am a great fighter
I have a good heart

[Guilty Pleasure]

Here are mine as follows:


1. I am a bad ass motherfucker

2. I make it through anything

3. Women want to talk to me

4. I am an alpha male and demonstrate this through my actions and though process.

5. No one is more important than myself

6. I am a joy to be around and my friends are constantly requesting my presence (this was actually proven true today.. Even people I barely hang out with request it!!)

7. I am financially independent and demonstrate this through my actions.

8. I am attractive as fuck.

9. I always have the upper hand in any interaction

10. Women love how direct I am with my intentions.

11. Women love how I fuck them. They always want more.

K.C.

[DJNinja]

I am funny, I know how to make people laugh
I am adaptive
I am intelligent, I can perceive things others cannot
I am interesting, people see me as a complex person
I have a classy fashion sense
I am tall and good-looking
I am a great fighter
I have a good heart

Well done! These are great, they are positive, written in the present tense, and describe the man you are and want to be.

Noticed you edited the "great fighter than most" to simply "great fighter". Was going to call you on it, but glad that you figured it out on your own When you add "than most", you train your brain to add that seed of doubt, so when faced when a fighter that your mind thinks is better than you, it will automatically command you to lose. By removing "than most," you train your brain to realise that you are an awesome fighter and that no opponent intimidates you!

[DJNinja]

Here are mine as follows:


1. I am a bad ass motherfucker
2. I make it through anything
3. Women want to talk to me
4. I am an alpha male and demonstrate this through my actions and though process.
5. No one is more important than myself
6. I am a joy to be around and my friends are constantly requesting my presence (this was actually proven true today.. Even people I barely hang out with request it!!)
7. I am financially independent and demonstrate this through my actions.
8. I am attractive as fuck.
9. I always have the upper hand in any interaction
10. Women love how direct I am with my intentions.
11. Women love how I fuck them. They always want more.

K.C.

Great job with these! Only a few tweaks to some of them needed:

The ones that start with "Women want" or "Women love"...change them to start with "I am" or similar. Remember, the focus is on YOU, since you are changing yourself and affirming your new beliefs. So instead of "Women love how direct I am with my intentions," it should be "I am always direct with my intentions so that it is very clear what I want from women."

Instead of "Women want to talk to me", change it to, "I am interesting and a very good conversationalist. Women enjoy talking to me and spending time with me."

I'll let you do #11

[Ice]

I am funny, I know how to make people laugh
I am adaptive
I am intelligent, I can perceive things others cannot
I am interesting, people see me as a complex person
I have a classy fashion sense
I am tall and good-looking
I am a great fighter
I have a good heart

Good start

Want you to take it further though and dig a little deeper

What resonates with you that make you you- and which will you internalize


So for example

I am amazing. I believe in seeing the good in people. I see the best in people even if others don't. I inspire and encourage others to follow their aspirations.

[Ice]

Here are mine as follows:


1. I am a bad ass motherfucker

2. I make it through anything

3. Women want to talk to me

4. I am an alpha male and demonstrate this through my actions and though process.

5. No one is more important than myself

6. I am a joy to be around and my friends are constantly requesting my presence (this was actually proven true today.. Even people I barely hang out with request it!!)

7. I am financially independent and demonstrate this through my actions.

8. I am attractive as fuck.

9. I always have the upper hand in any interaction

10. Women love how direct I am with my intentions.

11. Women love how I fuck them. They always want more.

K.C.

Overall a good list to start


See my reply to rom - feel free to add any beliefs in your positive affirmation


Also curious why it's important to you to have the upper hand in all interactions?

[Monteray]

This is where I want to be: draft 1.0

I am the guy that people look upto for advice

I live my life on my terms

I know if I put the work in I will not fail

I let my actions do the speaking not my words

People love to be around me because I am awesome

I am always positive

I live in the moment

I am the kind of person who helps people when they are down

I am strong and attractive

I learn lessons from my mistakes