My Coming to America, 30 Day Challenge........ :)

[poly]

So as some of you already know I’ll be touring the States this month, and although my ultimate plan for this time is to have a fkn wicked holiday and see as much of your wonderful Country as I can, I still want to have some goals so I can challenge myself and take my game to the next level.

So like many here I originated from the SLA elite forum, and there I was a bit of a ghost. I kept my distance and didn’t really take the time to get to know everyone, and in turn didn’t really put much of myself out there. I want that to change this time. This forum already has a close feeling to it amongst its members, and a warmness that I want to be a part. It’s as if you guys are life time mates and would go into battle for each other. I love it. So my first goal is to meet as many of you guys as I can during my travels and just chill and have fun. I’m really looking forward to the dinner on the 14th.

So my goal for the next 30 days is to be more impulsive.

I’m in a foreign Country, where I don’t know anyone, where I have no commitments, no one to answer to and nowhere to be. So why not take chances, make impulse decisions, and ride the highs. Hell my whole trip was an impulse. I was at work, saw a cheap offer on the net for one day only, asked my boss if I could have the leave, and bought the ticket. So why not dedicate my whole trip to being Impulsive.

So by being more impulsive, going with my gut, and taking chances I will open up a can of adventures to which who knows what’s possible. I’m going to make the most of every day. If I find myself thinking about opening a hot girl I see then I have failed. By having this challenge I will be forcing myself to open as many sets as I can and push myself in each one. There are heaps of areas in my game in which I need to improve which I have to address one at a time as they arise. The best way to do this is to constantly open, push myself in set, asses how it went, learn from my mistakes, and rectify it in the next set. By being impulsive I will be constantly opening, having fun and improving my game.

Every day is going to be an adventure where I do something new, meet someone new and learn something new, which will all be recorded on this thread.

See you guys soon.

[Valmont]

It's amazing that you're doing that! Every time I have travelled across America with my family I have loved it. In a gap year I aim to travel across it.

[Viewer]

What are your plans? Where are you going to be?
If you want keep me up-dated so we can find some adventures.

[The Chin]

Poly - can't wait to meet you on the 14th! LA isn't my home turf either, so we are going to go big.

PS - if you can, try to get your sleep schedule adjusted prior to coming here. Or maybe just knock yourself out on the plane so that you are ready to go when you get here.

[Metz]

I did the same exact thing in Australia!

The coolest part was I met four guys off the stylelife forums and we went out and had a blast. Guys in Melbourne, Adelaide, Brisbane. Being part of the elite forum, I would connect with a few guys, plan what cities you want to hit up and make a post and update it.
Unlike Australia, there's free internet pretty much everywhere here. :p

If/when you pass through the midwest (nebraska) find me. Same forum name on stylelife and active there (Metz). I got a free house you can crash at for a few days at least as you make way to larger, better cities.

Also, hostels. Open everyone with "Hi." Forget opinions or stuff like that. Everyone is international and very, very willing to meet and sleep with other foreign people. But you have to open them during the day. That way, at night, you have people to go out with...and in turn you bring back and have sex with. It's up to you if you want to fuck with 6 other guys in the room at 2a.m.
Happen with me in Oz.

Cheers

[KingOfAces]

where are you gonna be in the states? let me know if you're in the new york city/new jersey/philadelphia area at all and we can meet up

[poly]

Hey lads, I'm currrently chilling at the international airport in sydney, it's around 8 pm and my flight leaves tomorrow morn at 9. Gotta try stay awake till then so I can crash on the plane. The chin I just got an image of arnnie knocking that guy out on the plane in commando, Haha awesome flick.

Anyway guys so far my itinerary consists of me landing in LA on the 14th and flying over to NY on the 26th, definitely gotta hang out KoA, I'm so fkn excited about hitting NY. Then I fly back to LA on the 31st and fly home on the 10th. Which kind of sux because of the time difference I land on the 12 th in Sydney so I never have my birthday, Haha, should be a good story.

Anyway so far I have booked first night in LA and next two in Hollywood. So we are definitely going to paint the town red on Saturday chin, first night madness, its a must. After that I want to try and see the beaches of California, head down to San Dieago and maybe cross the boarder . Then after NY I want to see San Fran and spend last weekend in Vegas. Hit me up anyone whos keen on Vegas for the weekend of September 3 rd. Going to be epic.

So anyone who is going to be in and around those areas hit me up and we can go for a beer, or a captain, I love that stuff.

Until then,
poly.

[poly]

Hey metz I know exactly what your talking about man. I've back packed through NZ and Thailand and have had a ball, you can have so much fun with foreigners cause everyone's out to have a fun time. Both times I've gone I met German backpacker who have ended up staying with me in Adelaide when they continued there tour down south.

When were you in Adelaide man? I probably wasn't a part of SLA then, damn would of been mad to show a foreigner around my city.

Sux man I only got 4 weeks cause there are so many places I miss out on. So wanted to see Miami and hit up the Aviation museum in Washington DC. You should make the weekend of the 3 rd of September free and come to Vegas man

Anyways man cheers further offer and let me know next time your in Adelaide, Haha unlikely I know.

[poly]

So I was one of the guys who met up on the 14th for dinner with Bravo. It was my first day in America and what an awesome experience sitting across the table from the man himself and an all round great bunch of guys to learn and have fun with.

Overall the night was a massive success. Everyone had fun, was comfortable and got along. I learnt so much from watching Bravo interact with everyone and how he held himself. But the most valuable thing I took from the night was when Bravo was explaining how he small chunked everything when he was learning the game.

My biggest sticking point is that my game has no structure. I know how to open, attract and have fun but there is no consistency with it because I haven’t mastered anything yet. By having a goal for each night where I can go out and practice, practice, practice it until I've completely internalized it I can slowly build up some consistency with my game, have some solid material, structure and a tool box that I can keep adding too.

I'm in a fortunate situation now where I have 25 days in a foreign Country where I can go out and sarge every night, so instead of going out and winging it like I have been and not really learning anything I am going to adopt this goal a day method.

Starting tonight my goal is to run my clown fish DHV story 5 times. I want to be able to get to the level where I can segue naturally into this story with every set.

Will post on it tomorrow and update with another goal.

[poly]

Didn’t run the story at all, to be honest I completely forgot about it ha-ha. Fame and I accidentally hit up a gay bar lol. We hit the wrong end of town and didn’t realize till we were in the club and opened our first set to ask for a cigarette, 2 guys and a girl. They were cool and we ended up chatting for a while. Place started to fill up and there were actually quiet a few hot girls coming in so we decide to see if we could make it happen.

Was an fkn awesome night and ended with a number close and FB close. Going to call the girl today and organize a day 2.

Anyway yesterday’s goal carries over to tonight.