Starting tomorrow I am going to be making changes to improve my life for the better, and give myself an even more so desirable lifestyle. Each day I am going to try and achieve:
1.) College Work - A DHV at College to be top of your class and be doing well, while 99% of all girls would not date you based on your grades and levels at school, why lower the chances? Also It will lead to a good university and quality of life.
2.) My Looks - I am a good looking guy with a good dress sense. But I have put on some much not needed weight recently and it is time to man up and lose it. It would also be extremely beneficial to get in better shape because I have the worst stamina.
3.) A DHV Hobby - On holiday with my friends I picked up the guitar again for the first time in 6 months and received numerous compliments. It is a fun DHV to have and is god damn fun!
4.) Something Social or PUA Related - Everyday I am going to talk to someone I don't usually talk to, text a girl I don't usually text and just push forward with number closing. Also try and read some PUA material I have so I can improve my game.
5.) Achieve all my goals - I wrote myself a list of 50 goals to do this year. Some I have others I haven't and this sums up lots of those goals like: Learning to drive, write a novel etc...
Any Suggestions please let me know, So I can improve my already great life!
The Improve My Life Challenge
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Valmont
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Techfall
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Be careful with this one. Allow yourself some flexibility. I am also a goal setter. I have my goals right in front of me on the wall so I can look at them everyday. That said...I don't achieve all my goals every time. That will be perfectly ok.Valmont wrote: 5.) Achieve all my goals - I wrote myself a list of 50 goals to do this year. Some I have others I haven't and this sums up lots of those goals like: Learning to drive, write a novel etc...
Any Suggestions please let me know, So I can improve my already great life!
Some times you will fail, sometimes you will fall short, many times your goals will change as you grow as a person. The important thing is not about achieving all of them. The important thing is to get as many done as you can. Telling yourself that you will get them all done is a good way to burn out.
For instance one of my goals was to get a website of mine on the first page of goggle by a certain day. Then I found something else to work for so I completely disregard that goal. Did I fail? Absolutely not, my life just took a new direction.
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The Chin
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Also - 50 goals is a lot of goals. I would try to break that up and just try to achieve one at a time. Don't worry about the next until you finish the one you are currently on.
The Chin
Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoes. That way, you'll be a mile from them, and you'll have their shoes.
Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in their shoes. That way, you'll be a mile from them, and you'll have their shoes.
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6 - Make an hour or two a week to relax and ground yourself. Maybe through meditation or just alone stress free time.
Very highly recommend you set this in your schedule also. I try to find 15 minutes a day to sit in a quiet room, light a candle, and meditate. It brings a calm bearing to your life that will help you focus your mind and unwind.
Very highly recommend you set this in your schedule also. I try to find 15 minutes a day to sit in a quiet room, light a candle, and meditate. It brings a calm bearing to your life that will help you focus your mind and unwind.
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Valmont
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Good advice, My list of 50 is quite complete and some of it is simple like planting a tree. I booked my driving theory test and lessons, and am reading PUA often. Now just the motivation for college and losing weight needed!
