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Ice wrote:

romanianmmaguy wrote:

Ice wrote:

romanianmmaguy wrote:I'm gonna call now in advance a girl, feeling AA, but guess i have to just have to conquer it and take the advice in my sig

Update:no response dammit got worked up again for no reason

No... you didn't get worked up for no reason


There's a reason you're getting worked up when she didn't respond.


What is it?

I got worked up before and while listening to the ringer just for no pick up. After i don't really care and i am mentally ready to next em and get more

Slow down man

let's break this down


What if she was in the shower, in a meeting, in class, her phone was on silent, she was at the gym, driving, etc?


How come you are so quick to next them just because she didn't pick up your phone?

romanianmmaguy wrote:

Ice wrote:

romanianmmaguy wrote:

Ice wrote:

romanianmmaguy wrote:You guys were right, i Amog when i dont feel confident enough and sometimes i end up acting weird and doing impulsive things to stand out.

I'm not sure so just checking - are you answering my question here? This is why we ask everyone to quote our replies so we are clear

Yes

So inviting you to go deeper - IF this is something you want our help on


What weird acts are you doing
I say weird crap when my mental state is not up (actually scratch that i just realized that it was not as bad as i thought it out to be. Some guys were talking and one more joins and i shake his hand and say "how do you do?"al

What impulsive things are you doing
Once iwas in a group with a guy iknew a girl and another guy and i randomly kick a sign to show my insane mma skills prompting A "do you have problems?" From the girl

When are you doing them
When my confidence is down, when it's up i smile and am social

What are the reasons you are doing them?

I honestly don't know. Maybe as an escape?

romanianmmaguy wrote:

Ice wrote:

romanianmmaguy wrote:

Ice wrote:

romanianmmaguy wrote:I'm gonna call now in advance a girl, feeling AA, but guess i have to just have to conquer it and take the advice in my sig

Update:no response dammit got worked up again for no reason

No... you didn't get worked up for no reason


There's a reason you're getting worked up when she didn't respond.


What is it?

I got worked up before and while listening to the ringer just for no pick up. After i don't really care and i am mentally ready to next em and get more

Slow down man

let's break this down


What if she was in the shower, in a meeting, in class, her phone was on silent, she was at the gym, driving, etc?


How come you are so quick to next them just because she didn't pick up your phone?

Your right i was being VEEERY stupid. Hb BF is all over me texting after a week of silent treatment. She said she cant come friday cause of work over text and asked if there will be another next week. She is also begging me to have a party and invite her and her friends

Ice wrote:

romanianmmaguy wrote:

Ice wrote:

romanianmmaguy wrote:

Ice wrote:

romanianmmaguy wrote:You guys were right, i Amog when i dont feel confident enough and sometimes i end up acting weird and doing impulsive things to stand out.

I'm not sure so just checking - are you answering my question here? This is why we ask everyone to quote our replies so we are clear

Yes

So inviting you to go deeper - IF this is something you want our help on


What weird acts are you doing
I say weird crap when my mental state is not up (actually scratch that i just realized that it was not as bad as i thought it out to be. Some guys were talking and one more joins and i shake his hand and say "how do you do?"al

What impulsive things are you doing
Once iwas in a group with a guy iknew a girl and another guy and i randomly kick a sign to show my insane mma skills prompting A "do you have problems?" From the girl

When are you doing them
When my confidence is down, when it's up i smile and am social

What are the reasons you are doing them?

I honestly don't know. Maybe as an escape?

Even when you respond to my questions, it seems you're going through a similar line of thought


So, it seems to me like you are not comfortable yet with being yourself which takes time. Also, you do things that seek attention from others which is a sign of neediness. But when asked to look at it (or shine a spotlight at it), the tendency to overlook, dismiss, and/or avoid kicks in.


This will be one of your biggest sticking points imo. Become comfortable enough to take a hard look at situations that come up and how you react and REALLY look at it. If you do not, you will continue this cycle.

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romanianmmaguy wrote:One last thing. One of my strengths is that I dress well (my parents taught me ) a lot of guys give me shit about it but i realized that it's not because I am being a "try hard" or because i actually dress badly, but because they are jealous so they feel like dragging me down.

For example, wearing my true religions and a red Lacoste V-neck some guy told me "i saw that pair of pants before is that the only one you own?" How do I respond to things like this without starting to defend my clothes or blatantly insulting the guy?

Ice wrote:

romanianmmaguy wrote:One last thing. One of my strengths is that I dress well (my parents taught me ) a lot of guys give me shit about it but i realized that it's not because I am being a "try hard" or because i actually dress badly, but because they are jealous so they feel like dragging me down.

For example, wearing my true religions and a red Lacoste V-neck some guy told me "i saw that pair of pants before is that the only one you own?" How do I respond to things like this without starting to defend my clothes or blatantly insulting the guy?

http://bravopua.com/blog/

Bravo explains it really well here - "Shit Test" blog

romanianmmaguy wrote:

Ice wrote:

romanianmmaguy wrote:One last thing. One of my strengths is that I dress well (my parents taught me ) a lot of guys give me shit about it but i realized that it's not because I am being a "try hard" or because i actually dress badly, but because they are jealous so they feel like dragging me down.

For example, wearing my true religions and a red Lacoste V-neck some guy told me "i saw that pair of pants before is that the only one you own?" How do I respond to things like this without starting to defend my clothes or blatantly insulting the guy?

http://bravopua.com/blog/

Bravo explains it really well here - "Shit Test" blog

Wait I am confused, which one was better? The response to the knife in pocket or jeans?