Ever get called arrogant by women?
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lfthk1
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Ever get called arrogant by women?
There's a fine line between arrogant and confident...how would you interpret it?
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Re: Ever get called arrogant by women?
Yes I have. It usually means I'm not having a great day and I'm trying too hard to be confident. Tone it back and calibrate.
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Re: Ever get called arrogant by women?
lfthk1 wrote:There's a fine line between arrogant and confident...how would you interpret it?
Reframe it
Any ideals on how to?
Respectfully,
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Re: Ever get called arrogant by women?
" I'm not arrogant, I'm confident, there is a difference"
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Re: Ever get called arrogant by women?
Thiga wrote:" I'm not arrogant, I'm confident, there is a difference"
almost exactly what I say when I get called cocky or arrogant
"I'm not BLANK, I am confident, BIG difference!"
but you have to say with a smile and a twinkle in your eye
Respectfully,
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Re: Ever get called arrogant by women?
be playful and smile.....can almost say whatever you want......within reason lol
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lfthk1
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Re: Ever get called arrogant by women?
Same as I say, BUT....confident and attractive women usually would say confident, others it becomes arrogant.
I recently asked a friend's who is smart, very pretty how I came across, wanted to calibrate and who better to ask. She said when she first met me it came across as a bit arrogant, but she realized it wasn't that at all it was confidence, due to success etc. However most guys its the other way she said, and being an attractive girl her BS filter automatically sees guys as arrogant, rather than confident. Def a fine line.
I recently asked a friend's who is smart, very pretty how I came across, wanted to calibrate and who better to ask. She said when she first met me it came across as a bit arrogant, but she realized it wasn't that at all it was confidence, due to success etc. However most guys its the other way she said, and being an attractive girl her BS filter automatically sees guys as arrogant, rather than confident. Def a fine line.
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Re: Ever get called arrogant by women?
What difference does it make if another person calls you confident or arrogant? I just laugh at the person who says that and depending on my mood change the topic or just wish them a·dieu.
If you are constantly smiling and being confident and they call you arrogant with a smile, it's just that person messing with you, but if there is no smile that means they aren't used to dealing with a person of that caliber.
If you are constantly smiling and being confident and they call you arrogant with a smile, it's just that person messing with you, but if there is no smile that means they aren't used to dealing with a person of that caliber.
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Re: Ever get called arrogant by women?
i had this happened to me the other day..but i didnt have the smile or twinkle then she called me a pussy because im "arrogant" lol i laughed really hard and she got made and walked off..lol so my delivery wasnt good but hey it was funnyBravo wrote:Thiga wrote:" I'm not arrogant, I'm confident, there is a difference"
almost exactly what I say when I get called cocky or arrogant
"I'm not BLANK, I am confident, BIG difference!"
but you have to say with a smile and a twinkle in your eye