DJNinja & Ice: Live Coaching Thread 01.16.14 - DONE

[DJNinja]

Bring your questions & sticking points, and Ice & I will be glad to help you break through them! Looking forward to hanging out Thursday night!

9pm Eastern, 7pm AZ/BRAVO, 6pm Pacific

See you then!

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And we're live! Ice & I will be here for an hour or so answering your questions, so ask away!

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Thanks to all who came and asked questions! Ice & I really appreciate it!

See you all next week!

[S D]

couple questions but will not be around in the alotted time for the thread

I received this text

Lets hang out tonight! wanna bring a friend and come over and aus and my roommate can hang out here and then maybe go to the bars.

This WAS in the bag and initially thought "o cool threesome"

I responded in a way that didn't gather the genital mashing i desired but..

how do you respond?

[Ice]

couple questions but will not be around in the alotted time for the thread

I received this text

Lets hang out tonight! wanna bring a friend and come over and aus and my roommate can hang out here and then maybe go to the bars.

This WAS in the bag and initially thought "o cool threesome"

I responded in a way that didn't gather the genital mashing i desired but..

how do you respond?

Hey SD - need more context brother

who is this girl, what's your past history, - have you guys banged and talked about threesomes and how she is going to help pick up girls for threesomes for you?


how did you respond and what happened after?

[DJNinja]

Bump / ttt

[Methos]

Hey guys!

Any suggestions on places to meetup and fuck a girl during the day when you both only have an hour? Our places are too far and I've never done well in the back seat of a car. We have some parks and shit, but that's all I can think of.

[Ray_Ray]

Hi coachs,
So can you approach any group ?

Or do you do what I do - look for groups who look inviting ? Is that being a wuss where I only appraoch groups if it seems right ?

Thx,
RR

[DJNinja]

Hey guys!

Any suggestions on places to meetup and fuck a girl during the day when you both only have an hour? Our places are too far and I've never done well in the back seat of a car. We have some parks and shit, but that's all I can think of.

Fucking during the day is possible, but you've got so many challenges to your logistics: both real time constraints, challenging locations, etc. If logistics aren't in your favour, you can always go for the number close, then follow up later to lock in a date in which you can really escalate.

But let's assume you can pull during the day.

Find places where you can isolate her. Unless she's an exhibitionist, she probably won't want to fuck in broad daylight in front of everybody (where she will feel like she's being judged a slut). Parks are good; long before the date, you can always walk through the park by yourself or with other friends and keep an eye out for places where you can isolate the girl and really escalate.

Changing rooms at the mall.

Restrooms.

Cheap motel nearby.

[Methos]

Fucking during the day is possible, but you've got so many challenges to your logistics: both real time constraints, challenging locations, etc. If logistics aren't in your favour, you can always go for the number close, then follow up later to lock in a date in which you can really escalate.

But let's assume you can pull during the day.

Find places where you can isolate her. Unless she's an exhibitionist, she probably won't want to fuck in broad daylight in front of everybody (where she will feel like she's being judged a slut). Parks are good; long before the date, you can always walk through the park by yourself or with other friends and keep an eye out for places where you can isolate the girl and really escalate.

Changing rooms at the mall.

Restrooms.

Cheap motel nearby.

Thanks DJ! I should have added this is a girl who has done this sorta thing before and I see potential for a FB setup. Time constraints are against us hence meeting up during the day like this. Fucked her before and she is totally cool with meeting up like this for sex.

and gotta run for now! Meeting a different girl in a few!

[Ray_Ray]

Also,
When going to clubs, may I ask what is your frame ?

Thx,
RR

[DJNinja]

Hi coachs,
So can you approach any group ?

Or do you do what I do - look for groups who look inviting ? Is that being a wuss ?

Thx,
RR

Ideally, you talk to as many groups as possible. This accomplishes two things:

• It gets you into a talkative, social state, so you're already chatty and feeling good when you approach the sets that matter.
• It builds social proof. When the hot girls see you talking to EVERYBODY, they start to wonder who's the guy who knows everybody. "He must be pretty influential to know everybody in this place." Little do they know that you literally just approached most of the sets before theirs

I was with my wing a year ago at M Nightclub, a local club with a SIZZLING clientele. In the back patio, there was a HOTTT set of 6 sexxxy girls sitting in the centre table. These girls were solid 9s, and they knew it.

Approaching the set directly would have been futile; they were blowing out guys right & left. Obviously we would be just another pair of guys hitting on them if we just went in.

So my wing started on one end of the patio, and I started on the other, running the same opener - Five Oceans - on EVERY set, then ejecting midway through the opener, working our way towards the middle where the hot set was. With each set that we opened, we built up more energy and momentum (and most importantly, SOCIAL PROOF), so that by the time we were in the set next to the target sets, EVERYBODY in the back patio were trying to figure out what the Five Oceans were, and we were the most interesting and influential people there.

Opening that hot set was sooooooo easy...Ended up number closing all of the girls that night