Values (Developing) Coaching Live Thread w/ DJ and Ice DONE

[DJNinja]

Oops, delete this post

LOL, was going to answer your original question!

Go ahead and look at girls, and if they return the eye contact, consider that an approach invitation! Go in, say hi! I usually open with, "I see you checking me out, and it's rather rude for you not to say anything, so I'm picking up your slack to see what you're all about. I'm RomanianMMAGuy, what's your name?" Then stack from there.

Any values that you wish to share?

[romanianmmaguy]

Hmmm, I never thought of this...

I value loyalty, I cannot stand people who I feel are untrustworthy (90% of my school)

I value good women, that make me meals and could actually fix me mentally instead of just being a useless sack of meat that's only good for trivial things.

I guess it all just boils down to me disliking fake/shallow people, and I feel that we are surrounded by such people everywhere. Now I am even questioning my own realness Bahahah!

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What about in more warm approach situations? With women I see in the hall or class that know me?

[Ice]

Hmmm, I never thought of this...

I value loyalty, I cannot stand people who I feel are untrustworthy (90% of my school)

I value good women, that make me meals and could actually fix me mentally instead of just being a useless sack of meat that's only good for trivial things.

I guess it all just boils down to me disliking fake/shallow people, and I feel that we are surrounded by such people everywhere. Now I am even questioning my own realness Bahahah!

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What about in more warm approach situations? With women I see in the hall or class that know me?

So expand more about your value of loyalty. What is your definition, and why do you value it? What does it look like?


This is about YOUR personal leadership values and how it will guide you to make decisions. While you can put a value on women, it's not to be confused with a value that you use to guide you through tough times

Instead of 'you don't value fake/shallow people', what do you value? Is it authenticity? Is it being real? What does that look like to you? What does that MEAN to you?

Take a look at this site for more words that can be values: http://www.stevepavlina.com/articles/list-of-values.htm


Also, invite you to consider more on what other values you embody or want to embody

[Guilty Pleasure]

My values are as follows:

1.Honoring my principals and sticking to my guns..

When I say honor my code I mean honor my beliefs and to defend what I stand for. Many times your beliefs and principles will be challenged. I promise myself to always no matter what the circumstances are to always hold my ground and stand by my principals (no bullshit, respect for one another, eliminating negative people/energy from my life regardless of who they are, and last but not least to survive). Which brings me to my next value.

2.Surviving..

When I say sieving I don't mean surviving death but handling extremely tough situations with a courageous heart and a "no fail" mindset.. Many times I have been put in situations where I could have been broken into pieces and stopped trying. I didn't because I know 2 things..

1. I will not die from the event/problem 9 out of 10 times.

2. The worst that could happen is either happening at the moment or could not be worse.

^that is my mind when problems such as unemployment, lack of home, being stranded, and other small problems such as lateness to work, missing bills, ect.


This keeps me calm but I do retain my sense of urgency around everything.

And last but not least.

3.Determination

Many times in the past my determination has been put to the test (getting a new job and raising funds for PX was a big one and considered a pinnacle point). My determination is what has gained me my reputation at my jobs, the respect I currently have for myself and will soon be responsible for my new apartment. My determination to get things done/acquire needs goes hand in hand with my survival.. My mind set is pretty much summed up with 4 words....

"By any means necessary"

I apply all of these values to all aspects of my life.. Living necessities, women, and health of my life..


K.C.

Hey GP - I can tell you spent some time on this. Good start, and let's take it even further

I got so many things from #1... even more values

The big point I drew from #1 was you wanted to stay true to yourself and what you stood for.
What is the word that best defines this? Is it authenticity, bravery, courage, assertiveness, conviction, commitment, daring, decisiveness, mastery, maturity, strength, valor, or something else?

Take a look at http://www.stevepavlina.com/articles/list-of-values.htm and see which words stand out and resonate with your meaning of #1.


With # 2, I get what you're saying... just wondering if this is 'the' word you wish to associate with your value? Or, is it resilience, courage, self-reliance, strength, valor, peseverence, drive, devotion, or?

I like #3, it seems to fit you


More thoughts


With #1, I saw some additional values there, I saw courage, respect, positivity, and synergy. If these are your values, you'll want to identify them, and create your definitions for them.


Also - invite you to consider


If these are your values that are closest to you - are there any other values that you wish to adopt and stretch yourself to embodying these values?


For instance, I valued strength/courage and resiliency.... and I stretched my comfort zone by adopting harmony as my value


So while I value Strength, I also value harmony and compassion at the same time - a balance, ying/yang


Just some thoughts - feel free to solidy your values, consider if any other values you wish to stretch yourself on, and post back here for thoughts and to lock down

First one I would define as AUTHENTICITY.. Or being real ...

The second I would dub SELF RELIANCE.. That struck a chord in my head.. I look to myself to get through tough times..

I will revise the list of values and stretch to incorporate more.

I'll also define the many qualities in 1.. One is something that recently developed and is still going on very strong.

Thanks guys for throwing this together!

K.C.

[romanianmmaguy]

Hmmm, I never thought of this...

I value loyalty, I cannot stand people who I feel are untrustworthy (90% of my school)

I value good women, that make me meals and could actually fix me mentally instead of just being a useless sack of meat that's only good for trivial things.

I guess it all just boils down to me disliking fake/shallow people, and I feel that we are surrounded by such people everywhere. Now I am even questioning my own realness Bahahah!

------
What about in more warm approach situations? With women I see in the hall or class that know me?

So expand more about your value of loyalty. What is your definition, and why do you value it? What does it look like?


This is about YOUR personal leadership values and how it will guide you to make decisions. While you can put a value on women, it's not to be confused with a value that you use to guide you through tough times

Instead of 'you don't value fake/shallow people', what do you value? Is it authenticity? Is it being real? What does that look like to you? What does that MEAN to you?

Take a look at this site for more words that can be values: http://www.stevepavlina.com/articles/list-of-values.htm


Also, invite you to consider more on what other values you embody or want to embody

Meh fell asleep last night.

I do have very strong nationalistic values for both my countries, however I do not see how that can tie into PU.

[Ice]

Hmmm, I never thought of this...

I value loyalty, I cannot stand people who I feel are untrustworthy (90% of my school)

I value good women, that make me meals and could actually fix me mentally instead of just being a useless sack of meat that's only good for trivial things.

I guess it all just boils down to me disliking fake/shallow people, and I feel that we are surrounded by such people everywhere. Now I am even questioning my own realness Bahahah!

------
What about in more warm approach situations? With women I see in the hall or class that know me?

So expand more about your value of loyalty. What is your definition, and why do you value it? What does it look like?


This is about YOUR personal leadership values and how it will guide you to make decisions. While you can put a value on women, it's not to be confused with a value that you use to guide you through tough times

Instead of 'you don't value fake/shallow people', what do you value? Is it authenticity? Is it being real? What does that look like to you? What does that MEAN to you?

Take a look at this site for more words that can be values: http://www.stevepavlina.com/articles/list-of-values.htm


Also, invite you to consider more on what other values you embody or want to embody

Meh fell asleep last night.

I do have very strong nationalistic values for both my countries, however I do not see how that can tie into PU.

After my advice back to you, and how you are replying back


Not sure if you're asking a question or what you are saying

[Ice]

My values are as follows:

1.Honoring my principals and sticking to my guns..

When I say honor my code I mean honor my beliefs and to defend what I stand for. Many times your beliefs and principles will be challenged. I promise myself to always no matter what the circumstances are to always hold my ground and stand by my principals (no bullshit, respect for one another, eliminating negative people/energy from my life regardless of who they are, and last but not least to survive). Which brings me to my next value.

2.Surviving..

When I say sieving I don't mean surviving death but handling extremely tough situations with a courageous heart and a "no fail" mindset.. Many times I have been put in situations where I could have been broken into pieces and stopped trying. I didn't because I know 2 things..

1. I will not die from the event/problem 9 out of 10 times.

2. The worst that could happen is either happening at the moment or could not be worse.

^that is my mind when problems such as unemployment, lack of home, being stranded, and other small problems such as lateness to work, missing bills, ect.


This keeps me calm but I do retain my sense of urgency around everything.

And last but not least.

3.Determination

Many times in the past my determination has been put to the test (getting a new job and raising funds for PX was a big one and considered a pinnacle point). My determination is what has gained me my reputation at my jobs, the respect I currently have for myself and will soon be responsible for my new apartment. My determination to get things done/acquire needs goes hand in hand with my survival.. My mind set is pretty much summed up with 4 words....

"By any means necessary"

I apply all of these values to all aspects of my life.. Living necessities, women, and health of my life..


K.C.

Hey GP - I can tell you spent some time on this. Good start, and let's take it even further

I got so many things from #1... even more values

The big point I drew from #1 was you wanted to stay true to yourself and what you stood for.
What is the word that best defines this? Is it authenticity, bravery, courage, assertiveness, conviction, commitment, daring, decisiveness, mastery, maturity, strength, valor, or something else?

Take a look at http://www.stevepavlina.com/articles/list-of-values.htm and see which words stand out and resonate with your meaning of #1.


With # 2, I get what you're saying... just wondering if this is 'the' word you wish to associate with your value? Or, is it resilience, courage, self-reliance, strength, valor, peseverence, drive, devotion, or?

I like #3, it seems to fit you


More thoughts


With #1, I saw some additional values there, I saw courage, respect, positivity, and synergy. If these are your values, you'll want to identify them, and create your definitions for them.


Also - invite you to consider


If these are your values that are closest to you - are there any other values that you wish to adopt and stretch yourself to embodying these values?


For instance, I valued strength/courage and resiliency.... and I stretched my comfort zone by adopting harmony as my value


So while I value Strength, I also value harmony and compassion at the same time - a balance, ying/yang


Just some thoughts - feel free to solidy your values, consider if any other values you wish to stretch yourself on, and post back here for thoughts and to lock down

First one I would define as AUTHENTICITY.. Or being real ...

The second I would dub SELF RELIANCE.. That struck a chord in my head.. I look to myself to get through tough times..

I will revise the list of values and stretch to incorporate more.

I'll also define the many qualities in 1.. One is something that recently developed and is still going on very strong.

Thanks guys for throwing this together!

K.C.

Awesome man, glad we could help

[romanianmmaguy]

More of a statement.

I am having a harder time thinking of this, after reading through that list though camaraderie, adventure, adaptivity, and traditionalism stuck out to me.

[Ice]

Bump - for all the guys that participated in this - Post your updates as to where you are today here:

http://bravopua.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=18&t=8927