Vision Building Coaching Live Thread w/ DJ and Ice - DONE

[DJNinja]

Hey, BJ, long time no talk! Glad that you could contribute to the conversation.

A couple of general things: restate your vision in the PRESENT TENSE rather than future tense, this lets your mind focus on it happening NOW rather than arbitrarily happening maybe in the future.

Career

Currently work wise things are going quite well. Good salary , no weekends , no holidays 4 weeks vacation. Just waiting for another position to open up for a better salary.

What kind of position? What salary? Job description? This helps your mind focus on what ideal career position you are going to be in.

Wealth

I will continue to build my savings and pay off debt.
I have almost $1000 but am mainly focusing on paying down debt first.
I will have my credit card paid off by the new year (~600 at the moment)
I am going to Hawaii at the end of January , I will have $1500 to spend when I go
I will continue to pay off my line of credit and make sure I don't borrow from it.

Once again, rewrite these in the present tense.

Looking forward to seeing you soon!

Health

In three months I will have returned to the gym and continued the workout routine I had previously.
I will have lost about 20-25 pounds by the time I go to Hawaii.
I will have continued to read about one book a week. I average 1-2 a week.

Great job with these, looking forward to reading how well you reach these.

Relationships

I will have a clear understanding of what I want in a relationship and qualities I need in a woman , what I am willing to be flexible on and what are dealbreakers.

Write up what you are currently looking for in a girl/relationship. This gives your mind some direction as to what girls you want to (subconciously) attract. See the example that I posted above. And as you go on more dates, you start refining this list and becoming more selective on what is important to you in a girl, and what isn't.

Other

I really enjoy travelling. I am doing Hawaii in January and Asia next summer.
I have a list of where I want to travel and what I want to do.

I have even mapped out the next few years.

I need to write out a specific timeframe.

I know 2 years from now I want to go to Ireland for 2 weeks. When I return from Asia I will begin to save for that.

After that there is a list but I don't have specifics laid out. I know the countries (Brazil , Australia , Japan) but I haven't decided the time of year and specific dollar amounts. I am thinking this may be a little too far to focus on at the moment.

Don't focus on the money right now, just focus on when, and where. If those trips are REALLY important to you, your mind will subconciously make it happen, much like how you made your trips to Hawaii and Singapore happen

Also after one year of service my place of employment will pay for certain courses so after October I am eligable and in January they usually offer French courses so I will sign up for that when it becomes available.

Awesome!

[TempestNB]

Awesome job envisioning where your life is in the future.

Let's add to it.

What time frame do you see this happening? A year from now? Six months? Three months? Next month?

Tomorrow?

Also, what about other aspects of your life? What about career: what are you doing six months from now? A year?

Travels: are you traveling? Where are you visiting?

What kind of girls are you with? Tall brunette chicks with DDD size tits who like to be tied up? Tiny Asian girls with tight pussies that you might break in half if you're not careful? Full-figured women who have sexy sensual curves to go with their sexy voices? (Fat chicks need love too!)

And welcome to the Bravohood! Glad that you're active and participating here!

Yeah I'm with Quagmire on this one. They may need love, but not from me. If I can't pick them up physically, then they don't get me going. I like girls who take care of themselves. Race doesn't bother me, my bed is a multicultural meeting place. In my vision I can see both girls, both are toned and fit, I prefer a girl who take care of herself. That's not to say they don't have curves, good hour glass figures; an ass to grab onto and tits to dive head long into. Tonight they are a yin and yang, one an ebony beauty, the other a ginger muse. It is the ginger who rises first, her red hair wild like the morning sun.

But all of this is a decade in the making by my investment.

In 2 years time, I am graduating law school and heading into a career of criminal prosecution with a fully stocked, and powerful network of people I can call on for both business and pleasure in my back pocket. A rewarding job that will take me across the country, exploring it's many unique places, and meeting more people and continuing to build a web of connections to pull from for anything.

In one year time I am heading to the nations capital to begin this journey, taking the summer to work with the FBI and DOJ in keeping the country safe and secure from the people causing us the most trouble (mainly white collar criminals, as that is where my passions have fallen).

But travel is in my blood. This past summer I was in Europe for 2 months, a month in France and a month in England, with brief stops in Belgium and Scotland. In the past I've gone to Italy, but still have places to go and things to see all around the world. At least once every 2 years I leave this great country and explore what else there is to see.

As for more near and dear to the current time, it is October, and I have Halloween to plan for. At the end of this month I am celebrating one of my favorite holidays at a wild party, finding all the good little girls in their bad girl costumes. Every single one loves having me there, and I am the life of the party, an agent of chaos creating a storm. The next morning my mind turns to the 11th, my birthday is at hand, so time to keep the party going and bring people along for the celebration.

Tomorrow, well tomorrow I am going out on the town. Just because I am in law school does not mean I'm dead. So out to the bars I go to see what waits for me. I want to see just how far I can push the line tonight, and how much I can get away with. I didn't pick the name Tempest for nothing, so I'm going to live up to that name.

[DJNinja]

Awesome job envisioning where your life is in the future.

Let's add to it.

What time frame do you see this happening? A year from now? Six months? Three months? Next month?

Tomorrow?

Also, what about other aspects of your life? What about career: what are you doing six months from now? A year?

Travels: are you traveling? Where are you visiting?

What kind of girls are you with? Tall brunette chicks with DDD size tits who like to be tied up? Tiny Asian girls with tight pussies that you might break in half if you're not careful? Full-figured women who have sexy sensual curves to go with their sexy voices? (Fat chicks need love too!)

And welcome to the Bravohood! Glad that you're active and participating here!

Yeah I'm with Quagmire on this one. They may need love, but not from me. If I can't pick them up physically, then they don't get me going. I like girls who take care of themselves. Race doesn't bother me, my bed is a multicultural meeting place. In my vision I can see both girls, both are toned and fit, I prefer a girl who take care of herself. That's not to say they don't have curves, good hour glass figures; an ass to grab onto and tits to dive head long into. Tonight they are a yin and yang, one an ebony beauty, the other a ginger muse. It is the ginger who rises first, her red hair wild like the morning sun.

But all of this is a decade in the making by my investment.

In 2 years time, I am graduating law school and heading into a career of criminal prosecution with a fully stocked, and powerful network of people I can call on for both business and pleasure in my back pocket. A rewarding job that will take me across the country, exploring it's many unique places, and meeting more people and continuing to build a web of connections to pull from for anything.

In one year time I am heading to the nations capital to begin this journey, taking the summer to work with the FBI and DOJ in keeping the country safe and secure from the people causing us the most trouble (mainly white collar criminals, as that is where my passions have fallen).

But travel is in my blood. This past summer I was in Europe for 2 months, a month in France and a month in England, with brief stops in Belgium and Scotland. In the past I've gone to Italy, but still have places to go and things to see all around the world. At least once every 2 years I leave this great country and explore what else there is to see.

As for more near and dear to the current time, it is October, and I have Halloween to plan for. At the end of this month I am celebrating one of my favorite holidays at a wild party, finding all the good little girls in their bad girl costumes. Every single one loves having me there, and I am the life of the party, an agent of chaos creating a storm. The next morning my mind turns to the 11th, my birthday is at hand, so time to keep the party going and bring people along for the celebration.

Tomorrow, well tomorrow I am going out on the town. Just because I am in law school does not mean I'm dead. So out to the bars I go to see what waits for me. I want to see just how far I can push the line tonight, and how much I can get away with. I didn't pick the name Tempest for nothing, so I'm going to live up to that name.

Well done!

Looking forward to following up later this month to see how your Halloween and birthday celebration goes!

Regarding travel: where do you see yourself going to? And when?

[DJNinja]

Great posts by everyone tonight! THANK YOU so much for participating!

[Ice]

By the end of 2014 I can be happy with the fact I have improved and I am still improving. The most important thing for me is that I enjoy the journey…

I will be living closer to the city area, southeast, inner west, or lower north shore, I want to connect with like-minded people and hang with people who enjoy doing rather than say they are doing. I will also have flatmates don’t smoke weed…

In relation to my personal situation, I will be enrolled in three units at uni will have made a decision reading my commerce major, and have 30 credit points towards my degree completed with at least a D average grade. I see that I will be working in the service industry in either retail or bar work to help me spend more time studying and different hours will help me to use my time more efficiently.

I am starting my course to become a volunteer phone counsellor, this is to help me with my studies and a charity at the same time. I will have done enough time in my pysch degree now to be able to do this more effectively.

I will have completed a second level language course, I have chosen Spanish as it is widely spoken and is a native language in some places I want to visit.

I will attend more race meetings next year, I am a member of the major race club and it is a passion of mine. Plus it is crazy how many girls go..

I will keep travelling this time to north or south America, I have already been to japan (January) and another Asian country during our winter.

I have improved skills in pick up, and now have the power to choose who I spend my time with. I have learnt a lot from previous relationships and know what I want, I also know what I don’t want to be, that needy validation seeking douche who usually appears after a month or two.. I don’t have specific numbers for this like I want to bang 10 hb10’s or whatever. I just don’t want to be asking myself what if I had approached that girl anymore. I want to be happy with my choices and bring value to relationships rather than just taking…

I am getting to see my sisters more who are both almost 18 now, they need their older brother to help them through this time and I am not always there for them…
I have a new tattoo or piercing, and have improve my fashion with the following items.

One new suit, at least 2 new pairs of shoes (one runners one decent), one or two new leather jackets, 2 new pairs of decent jeans, some different/alternative style clothing, a blazer, and at least 5 new shirts. And other cool stuff I find along the way…

I am still off smoking, I will have been 18 months now, I also hope to keep my alcohol consumption down to what it is currently. Once every few weeks, and special occasions.
I am in the gym, got my weight back up to 95ks (88 now) not sure in pounds sorry about 200 I think. And a body fat level that I feel good with, not a specific number. My eating habits are much better than they were in 2013.

Very good start on your vision Monte.

Will invite you to see if you can make your vision more clear, concise, and compelling. You've got the details, now what is most important to you that INSPIRES you

Be specific (what part of town do you want to live in) - pick the one you want most.

Could say "I surround myself with successful like-minded people with strong/good values."

Your vision is for by the end of 2014. So, by then you will apply the skills you have learned in phone counseling to help you in your career and volunteer work. You also could reframe this by digging deeper in what is it you hope you gain from counseling course - "truly listening to people, harmonizing the environment, etc"


Where is it that you REALLY want to work. What's the image - that movie picture snapshot you see yourself working in

So you can say, you want to surround yourself amongst beautiful women.

The rest looks fine - try to make them more clear and concise - can repost later and I will take a look (pm me to when you've done)

[Ice]

It's funny that this is the topic to be posted, as I have had my vision clearly in my mind for some time now.

I'm waking up in a penthouse sweat, the place around me is a bit of a mess from the party before, but it's fine. I slide out of bed, letting the two girls continue to sleep as I head over to the windows. The sun is coming up, and I love to look out over the city as it comes alive. A small glass of premium scotch from the night before sits on a night stand, and I pick it up to finish where I had left off. I'm wearing a nice silk robe, loosely tied, and enjoying the texture as it clings to my body.
At the window, I see my city, the city I have built waking up with the sun. The light is weaving its way between the buildings, and the hustle and bustle of daily life has yet to really come into full swing. A few earlier risers are heading to work, a few joggers can be found getting in a morning run, but the city is a sleeping giant slowly coming to life.
I feel a pair of soft hands wrap themselves around me, slipping under the folds of my robe. Without looking I know which one of the girls it is by her touch alone. And I smile. Looking down at my city, a beautiful girl wrapped around me, a small glass of luxury in my hand, I feel complete. I feel whole, and I feel happy, knowing that I brought this all into existence. I have the rest of the day to look forward too, with many challenges and trials to come. The idea of it all excites me, and my smile becomes even greater. This is the moment my whole life has been building too, and it will only get better from there.

So that's it, that's my ultimate vision, my ultimate dream. This is the image I go to in my mind to make me just feel good.

The visualization on this is amazing. If you can keep this up throughout your entire vision, this will help you tenfold.

Remember your vision includes all aspects of your life: career, family, friends, community, health & fitness, personal qualities, appearance, where you live, what you own, what you do for fun, volunteer activity, how much you make, what investments you have etc.

Can add those in if you want/and is important to you - then repost and we can look at it (remember to pm us when done so we know to look)

[Ice]

Note: We are wrapping up the live coaching thread now.

IF I have not gotten to your vision, it means I want to spend more time on it - and I will post back.

IF you have revised/want to revise your vision, feel free to post here and get our thoughts (pm DJ and I so we know to look).

This is YOUR vision and you can do whatever you want with it. If you want to post your vision in a separate thread and continually update/get feedback - feel free.

[Noa]

I originally thought my post had gone through earlier, but seems it didn't

Anywho:

Everytime I have this conversation with myself(what do I vision myself doing in the future) only one thing keeps popping up. Baseball. I used to play it, I love it and miss playing it. Honestly it's the only thing I actually see myself doing, despite everything else I thought previously(wanted to do forensics, then psych, then com sci, then be a cop). I'm now a business major because it's the another thing I find natural for me(after switching majors 4 freaking times). Maybe in some capacity I can combine the both for a career, but I digress from that momentarily.

As of now I have 3 semesters(not including this one) of college left. This means I have about 9 months to prepare myself for a walk-on tryout for my school's baseball team. Should I not make the team, I really don't know what I'm going to do with my life. Probably work for some fortune 500 company, make some money, but it's def not going to be something that I LOVE doing.

Here's a list of goals I plan to accomplish:
-Play baseball for college(I plan on cutting down to 155, then start a bulk phase to 170)
-Start and fully maintain a healthy diet(also counting macros)
-Learn how to dance contemporary and tango
-Take some form of MMA/Self-defense classes
-Get a car(this would save me about 20 hours a week from traveling by bus/train, literally)
-Finish reading every book I've started and haven't finished yet(about 6 books as of now)
-Better time management*
-Travel around the world*
-Bartender's License*
-Pilot's License*


Now in terms of dating:
-As of now, only willing to get into a relationship with a red-headed girl who's cool and meets all of my other criteria(s). Other than that, I'll continue enjoying my single life.

I'm currently trying to think of other goals right now, but will update if I think of one or more.

Edit: Second time I posted after the thread ended, seems like I gotta manage my time much better too

[TempestNB]

Thanks so much guys! I'm actually transcribing what I wrote here into a journal and refining it. Seems I have a bit more work to do then I thought haha. Love it.

[Ice]

I originally thought my post had gone through earlier, but seems it didn't

Anywho:

Everytime I have this conversation with myself(what do I vision myself doing in the future) only one thing keeps popping up. Baseball. I used to play it, I love it and miss playing it. Honestly it's the only thing I actually see myself doing, despite everything else I thought previously(wanted to do forensics, then psych, then com sci, then be a cop). I'm now a business major because it's the another thing I find natural for me(after switching majors 4 freaking times). Maybe in some capacity I can combine the both for a career, but I digress from that momentarily.

As of now I have 3 semesters(not including this one) of college left. This means I have about 9 months to prepare myself for a walk-on tryout for my school's baseball team. Should I not make the team, I really don't know what I'm going to do with my life. Probably work for some fortune 500 company, make some money, but it's def not going to be something that I LOVE doing.

Here's a list of goals I plan to accomplish:
-Play baseball for college(I plan on cutting down to 155, then start a bulk phase to 170)
-Start and fully maintain a healthy diet(also counting macros)
-Learn how to dance contemporary and tango
-Take some form of MMA/Self-defense classes
-Get a car(this would save me about 20 hours a week from traveling by bus/train, literally)
-Finish reading every book I've started and haven't finished yet(about 6 books as of now)
-Better time management*
-Travel around the world*
-Bartender's License*
-Pilot's License*


Now in terms of dating:
-As of now, only willing to get into a relationship with a red-headed girl who's cool and meets all of my other criteria(s). Other than that, I'll continue enjoying my single life.

I'm currently trying to think of other goals right now, but will update if I think of one or more.

Edit: Second time I posted after the thread ended, seems like I gotta manage my time much better too

I will make sure I dedicate the time to look at your vision as soon as I can Noa!