I remember exactly how frustrating it was. I would see a woman that made me HAPPY to be a man, would give me butterflies in the stomach, blood would start pumping to parts of my body, my mind would forget about everything else and that magical moment was all that mattered and then….a little voice in the back of my mind would shut me down. It would tell me something like “no way she is single” or ” she would never be into a guy like me”, “I don’t know what to say”, or even worse, “it would be too awkward to go and talk to her with people watching”!
I am sure many of you guys can relate to this. Some of you have always felt this, and some guys like me, after a long term relationship ended, had to get back out there and start over.
The few times I did force myself to try it, (after a few beers and with the encouragement of my friends) I would just mess it up, and it felt even worse than just not even trying at all.
I tried some ONLINE DATING, and I even got lucky a few times! But never when I wanted it the most, and NEVER with the caliber of woman I wanted.
I finally hit my breaking point when I got stood up on New Year’s Eve 2005. I had the perfect date planned, fireworks shows, and then back to my place for some fun…but she ghosted me. The worst part was I wasn’t even really into her…I had lowered my standards and STILL got stood up!
That night I decided that I would figure this area of my life out, no matter what!!!
You have to remember that the internet in 2006 wasn’t even close to what it is today. I had no one to help me, and books were the first thing I tried. Most of them were pretty worthless. But I did get a good tip here or there…. but one book that was recently released called THE GAME by Neil Strauss, changed my life! It was at that moment I realized that talking to women and dating was something I could get better at.
I started going out 3-4 nights a week, constantly doing what I was most scared of, talking to women. I didn’t have a coach or mentor to help me so it was slow going at the start, but then…things started to click. I was getting more dates than ever before with women I thought weren’t just beautiful, but really GOOD people as well…something I had almost given up hope on finding!
My new found social skills were so impressive I had friends start asking for help, friends trying to get me to help THEIR friends, guys on the internet who had read some of my advice driving hours to come meet me, and finally the author of the book that had such a big impact on my life, asking me to come work for him. Eventually he even wrote about me in the follow up best selling sequel to the book that changed my life, Rules of The Game.
Living in Hollywood and travelling the world teaching was a crazy time in my life. I learned so much, but I also learned what I didn’t want to be. I never was a club or bar guy, I don’t do drugs, rarely drink, and while it was fun having a super busy dating life…that just never was a big deal to me. I originally got into this stuff to get over my X and to just get a cool girlfriend. (which is what most of my students want). So in 2010 I moved back to Arizona and started my own company where I teach guys how to do that in a cool and authentic way.
The best part is, after 10+ years of professional teaching, with thousands of guys from all over the world, there are only a few real sticking points every guy has when it comes to connecting with women, and most of the time it only takes several hours to fix YEARS of mistakes!
- How to approach women and get over your Approach Anxiety
- What to say and how to say it
- How to deal with her friends or other people around us
- How to get a phone number and then what to do with it
- How to plan a cool date (this breakthrough was HUGE for me)
- How to sexually escalate, especially in the ME TOO era
- How to not be clingy or desperate
- How to make friends
- How to be cool at work
- and other the other things I teach like how to protect yourself + your loved ones
Are all things I coach guys in. I share things that changed my life and the lives of countless students around the world. Not just dating advice, but living your life like a MAN advice.
I am here to help you!
I can only imagine how fast my progress would have been if I had someone there to help me when I needed it. That is why I offer personal and 100% private COACHING, either in person or on the phone. I will help you break through any sticking points you have or any walls that come up in your way. Trust me, I 100% know how depressing it can be when you don’t have control of your life. I am living proof of what is possible and how awesome your life can get, and the best part is it wasn’t even that hard to get here!
If you have any questions, email me and I will get back to you. This is what I do, I love helping you guys, it is my mission in life. I get to turn all the negative shit I went through into something positive and spread it out in the world. Life doesn’t get much better than that. The best part is that guys that I work with, get to eventually do the same thing…
Hopefully, I will hear from you soon.