DJ and Ice: Coaching thread Thursday Sept 19 - AND DONE!

[Ice]

DJ and I are back tonight - ready to kick it with you guys and hopefully teach you guys something along the way.


Come hang out, have some fun, and post your toughest sticking points for us to help you blow through!


These can be:

1. Pickup/Game related

OR

2. Questions you have about developing yourself as a man and leader

3. Questions you have been having about something in your life, maybe you don't know what to make of it, want a second opinion from guys that will give it to you straight

4. You've been in a downward spiral and don't know how to get out of it

5. Anything else you've been working on that you want our take on how to get you to the next level


I look forward to seeing you guys on here during the week. It's where I can dedicate most my focus on helping you guys who show up.

And, DJ, Bravo and I are planning something for you guys too. Stay tuned!

[Ice]

Bump. See you guys tonight at 6pm pst!

[DJNinja]

Looking forward to it!

[Maestro]

DJ- How many fedoras do you own?

Ice- I gotta be honest, the gyno chair is one I never woulda thought of or expected. Are you going to use it as a massage table or what? How do you plan on using it as a McGuffin? I was laughing picturing a girl walking in with no warning and seeing the stirrups and thinking WTF? Lol. So Obviously you want to tell them about it and come from the right frame so it isn't creepy.

Also- Halloween is a month away. In Atlanta its a week long party. I'm getting costume ideas ready and events lined up. What are you guys doing?

[DJNinja]

Thanks for the great questions, Maestro!

DJ- How many fedoras do you own?

Four. One daily wear white, one special-occasion white, one daily wear black, one grey. I need to toss the daily wear white, it's starting to look old, it was the one I wore to PX4, but I haven't found a new white fedora that I'm satisfied with.

Also- Halloween is a month away. In Atlanta its a week long party. I'm getting costume ideas ready and events lined up. What are you guys doing?

Walked through Savers today, they had their costumes up already with a reminder that Halloween is 42 days away. Haven't thought of specifically what I'll be wearing, but as far as what I'm doing: probably going to roll into Waikiki that night; there's a HUGE block party that happens every year. On dates around it, there are zombie pub crawls (last year went as a zombie hunter, so had a fake chainsaw and used it as a prop to playfully open hot zombie girls), block parties in Chinatown, and costume parties at various nightclubs.

Time to revive the BH Halloween Ideas thread?

[Ice]

DJ- How many fedoras do you own?

Ice- I gotta be honest, the gyno chair is one I never woulda thought of or expected. Are you going to use it as a massage table or what? How do you plan on using it as a McGuffin? I was laughing picturing a girl walking in with no warning and seeing the stirrups and thinking WTF? Lol. So Obviously you want to tell them about it and come from the right frame so it isn't creepy.

Also- Halloween is a month away. In Atlanta its a week long party. I'm getting costume ideas ready and events lined up. What are you guys doing?

Hahaha! Yea good call man. I'm going to introduce it like a massage table - but for chicks that are into the kink, it will be all play! I'm also liking the set up of where it is.

My apt isn't that big so when you come in, it's one of the first things you'll see in the middle of my apt. I actually came back in to my apt when it was set up like that - forgot I had it - and bam, it's right fucking there. I still have a laugh when I think about it b/c it's kinda intense, but is right up my alley! When the massage table is laid out, it's actually quite inviting so we'll see how it goes. haha

Already introduced it to my fb and she believed it was a massage table until she asked me where I got it and realized that hospitals don't have massage tables.


- For Halloween I promised a friend I'd take her trick or treating so I won't be doing anything crazy that night.

[Bravo]

Besides "going infield" what has bed the thing that has helped each of you the most on your journey.

What was the biggest breakthrough you each had on this journey. Something you never would have believed if someone told you it was in your future?

[Ice]

Besides "going infield" what has bed the thing that has helped each of you the most on your journey.

What was the biggest breakthrough you each had on this journey. Something you never would have believed if someone told you it was in your future?

There have been so many things that have helped along the journey - it's hard to say it's just one thing.

For me, where I saw most progress was when I went through PX2. Then, all the continuous learning from the PX coaches after PX2, and the support/encouragement from the BH... it all added to it.

Remember I paid over $5000 to go to Mystery's Bootcamp, and I saw no results. I didn't get laid and I didn't learn much about improving my lifestyle the entire year after - until I went to PX2.

So putting it all together, my journey and growth from the BH/PX2, I would say it was important that I stayed resilient. It came down to me digging deep, internalizing my vision, what I wanted for my life/lifestyle, and the direction I wanted to take my life. I continually applied what I had learned from PX2.

Bravo, I remember you said not to get in a relationship until I fuck 10 girls after PX2. My first few LR's, I could've/would've gf'd right away and they wwere already headed to that frame... Had I gave in and did what was easier, I would've had a different result after PX, and it would've slowed my progress down.

So for me, the biggest thing I have to say is knowing my VISION, staying on that path, knowing what I wanted, and getting there while being authentic to my values, and all the support I got from you, the PX coaches, and the BH.


My biggest breakthrough was realizing - after doing several times - it was entirely possible to meet a girl and fuck her within 10 mins, taking pics of her tied up, writing on her, and fucking the shit out of her ass and making her beg and crawl around my apt for my cock -- and she'll beg for more!

From an inner game perspective, I'd say it would be following the path of discovering more about myself that I thought I ever would - and continuing on that path. I went into leadership looking to learn how to lead teams, but one of my biggest breakthroughs was really learning how I lead myself in everyday situations with people.


AND - almost forgot... another big breakthrough - that if someone told me was possible for me and I didn't believe - was that I would have a sex slave, and her signing a sex contract saying all her fuckholes belong to me, and she lives to serve/pleasure me, and actually now developing a deep bond with her through all our crazy experiences we go through!

[DJNinja]

Besides "going infield" what has bed the thing that has helped each of you the most on your journey.

So many things, but if I had to narrow it down to four things...

The flashchats. Getting useful & practical advice from NSM, Shotz, Smoothcall, and other fc hosts really helped me realise my sticking points. Even if I wasn't asking a question, oftentimes someone else would ask an interesting question that I wanted to ask but couldn't think of at the moment.

Writing field reports, and the helpful advice from guys on the forum. I'm really grateful to the guys who took the time to read my FRs and LRs, gave me good feedback and set me in the right direction.

Coaching calls from Bravo, and friendly phone calls from advanced guys here. I remember the first year of my epic birthday party I didn't pull ANYTHING, and my head was so bent because of it. Phone calls with NSM, Techfall, and others helped me get me back to where I needed to be. And then, of course, after a coaching call from Bravo, I got laid.

Finally, it was Project X that really kicked me into high gear. Because of the stuff I learned, it really pushed me to get in-field more, apply the stuff I learned in this investment, and really see what I can do

What was the biggest breakthrough you each had on this journey. Something you never would have believed if someone told you it was in your future?

Hahaha, so much of those...

Definitely when I went to Vegas and had my Epic Foursome.

When I had a nerdy, "nice girl" in bed, and started throwing her around like a rag doll, pulling her hair, spanking her, and realising just how dirty these girls can be.

When I started dating these model chicks that were taller than me.

When I came to the realisation that I have slept with more girls than most guys have slept with in their entire lives.

When Bravo asked me to co-host the flashchat with NSM. What's funny is that a few weeks before, I had asked NSM who they had in mind; I had dropped a few names but had no idea that mine was in the running

When Bravo asked me to help out at Project X.

When I went exclusive with The Girlfriend, who's hot, sexxxy, taller than me, a lot of fun, smart, nerdy, and a lot of things that I look for in a quality girl.

But not resting on my laurels, still A LOT to learn, which is why I'm still here!

[DJNinja]

Guys

What are your current goals with women

And for improving yourselves?

Great questions!

Right now I'm in a serious LTR with a girl who is very much into me. She's smart, independent, but doesn't do drama, plus the sex is awesome, so in a happy place there and taking it day by day with her. If it ends tomorrow, I can be happy with what I had, take a day to mourn the relationship, then be right back in-field tomorrow.


I'm still going in-field and being social, talking to girls to keep the conversation skills up and to collect numbers to build social circle. Nowadays, it's nice rolling into a venue with 2-4 hot girls

As far as improving myself, professionally I attend conferences in my field every few months on the mainland. Just missed the one this year in September, but may make it out in February next year, and definitely next year in September. I also peruse forums related to my craft which keep me on my toes and on the edge for what I do.

Socially, I'm still going in-field and trying new things, and I learn a lot of new things from The Girlfriend and vice versa