The Bravohood

So I've had an eye on my ex (lets call her hb punk) for a pretty long time. She's super hot, has a kid (that I was pretty close to), works as a tattoo artist ect

I recently moved to cali from Michigan and I planned to move back soon (in a couple of weeks) I've been in contact with her a couple of times a week via facebook or text. she just recently became single (in the past one time she had a BF and I slept with her until I got super pissed/drunk one night and fucked shit up...which we didnt talk for 5 months...which we're talking again now).

There's been another girl I've been talking to here in Cali (hb blonde). The girl knew I had been doing the fap challenge. she sent me a text earlier 'so hows the no fap challenge *pic of her in a bra and thong* I replied 'well it was easy, you need to get here now*

anyway after some drinks with some friends I decided to post the convo with the girl.

'girl; how's the no fap challenge going *sends picture*
me: well it was easy.. you need to get here now.

I swear some girls just try to make my life hard'

HB punk ended up removing me over facebook about it. I sent her a text 'hey, whats up. have a minute to chat' then she sent me a request on fb then said 'i'm pretty tired.'
Me: i saw you removed me off face book then sent a request. is everything okay?'
HB punk: I didnt recall sending you a request, but I removed you over a post that annoyed me, I still want to be friends and talk and stuff but what eves.
Me: I wanna be friends too. I am pretty intoxicated and I'm sure I know the post you're talking about. I was already thinking about deleting it because it's not 'classy'. I'll remove it and we can still be friends.
HB punk: whatever.
Me: Well I removed it. I know you said you're tired. Take care and have a good night.

She never responded or confirmed the request. My roomie said to give it a day or two and give her a call. Said I'll probably be able to repair it from there. when I hangout with this girl while I was still in Michigan I know she's attracted because of our history, how I kino with her, hug her, ect. My roommate said the post probably hurt her because of our history in a LTR and she's still into me. Probably caused a lot of deep seeded insecurity (the girl was pretty insecure)

Talked to HB: blonde on the phone for awhile about grabbing a hotel together ect. (did not post any of that on FB and plan to keep in between her and I)

Did I fuck up with the FB post. Anyone have any input?

Stupid thing to put on facebook. Why would you put anything like that on there?

Then you acted like a bitch to a girl you aren't even seeing.

Damage is done. Don't apologize. Own it.

I was drunk and because I had broke the No fap challenge the day before. I was out doing daygame and realized how much social anxiety I had today, my first day back in field. (haven't actually done much in field stuff in about 2 years. I've just read a lot). I guess a combination of them all added up to me posting that.

What do you mean by 'Don't apologize. Own it.'

Do you mean move on, realize a mistake and learn from it, or something else I might be missing?

Dont post stuff on public places about personal, sexual stuff.

OR

If you do, stop apologizing to someone who got offended by it.

You did something you wanted to do, someone got.upset, and now youre being all passive agressive about it. Stop bullshitting with little conversation.

^^This

Alright now that I'm sober. I know it was a pretty dumb thing to post that (not because someone got offended, but I know I should keep my sexual life private). I normally wouldn't do that. Lesson learned.

Do you guys have and advice on what to do about the girl though? should I give it a couple of days and call her? Do I act like it never happened?

sopherium wrote:Do you guys have and advice on what to do about the girl though? should I give it a couple of days and call her? Do I act like it never happened?

It sounds like you have oneitis. The only advice anyone here is going to give you is to go out and open new sets.

Geeze. Get off fcuking fakebook