Tension

[Radiate]

Hey guys, I'm an American college student who just joined the Bravohood and aspires to be a PUA coach. One of the most important things I've learned about game since starting my journey after reading The Game three years ago is the importance of tension. Better yet, the ability to manipulate and calibrate tension levels is what seperates a lot of mediocre PUAs from expert ladies' men. One of my favorite ways to build tension is to let a short moment of silence creep in after she has been talking for a while. For example, let's say she just spent the last five minutes telling you about her favorite hobbie and has been talking nonstop. Instead of trying to keep the conversation moving immediately after she stops talking like most guys would do, don't say anything and let silence fill the air for a few seconds. Doing this will create plenty of tension and she will more than likely be the one to reinitiate coversation. What other some other things you guys do to build tension and control tension levels when interacting with women?

[Jay-T]

I think this is an excellent way to seem awkward and like you're trying to find the next thing to say. I prefer to build SEXUAL tension by teasing and sexualizing the conversation.

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