Valmont's 30 Day Challenge (REBOOT)

[Valmont]

Things have really been going downhill for me recently, socially. I got to about Day 2 in the challenge then stopped doing it. I thought about jumping to Day 3. So I have done 5 approaches today and will Post my goals Later.

Day 1:

Approach 1 - Sat in the waiting room on the train, started chatting to the guy about the weather.
Approach 2 - Sat next to some guy at the station, asked him why it was so busy, he just made me repeat myself then ignored me, quite rude but shit happens.
Approach 3 - Sat next to some guys on the train and chatted about how busy it was.
Approach 4 - Spoke to some guy about the temperature
Approach 5 - Read above, different guy though.

I know it sounds like fuck all, but I completed it and am happy.

How people Percieve me: - A nice, funny guy who while Can be confident can also be shy, attraction with him builds over a long period of time and not instantaneously.

Like to be percieved: - A confident, strong funny guy who can be friends with and attract whoever he wants, I want to be around him because it is much more fun than being with anyone else.

Three characteristics to change: - My Inconsistent confidence levels
- Lack on spontaneous ness
- Be Less lazy

Three New Behaviours to adopt: - A cool care free attitude
- A relaxed manner
- A strong determination to achieve what I want

[KingOfAces]

awesome bro. glad to see you finally started it! good job on making the approaches. now on to day two!

[Smoothcall]

Good job! Keep it up.

[Valmont]

Day 2 - Completed Yesterday but goals in now:

The eye colours were 3 grey, 1 brown and 1 green. Similiar chat to my Day 1, did this while at work.

Three things that would make me happier: - Being able to approach and close high quality women fearlessly

- To be more of the centre of an active social circle

- To have an active sex life with different women

These would make me happier because I would have a happy and more desirable lifestyle.

I will become a sociable and sexual master who will enjoy his life to the max by the end of this year.

- I will have slept with 2 Women by the end of the year
- I will # close 10 different cold approaches by the end of the year
- I will Get into 5 universitys by september.

I am fully committed to this because this is the life I want. Because IF I dont persue it now I will suffer over the next few years and my happiness will get worse. MY social life will get worse, my academic life will get worse.

However, If I persue it now. My happiness will improve, my social life will get better and my academic life will get better.

[Maestro]

Great job Valmont. Keep going. Its awesome that you are not only doing the challenge, but have an awareness of what aspects of yourself that you want to change.

[Valmont]

Day three:

I felt a bit bad because its a sunday so I wouldnt leave the house so showering and shaving didn't really matter. But I still have learnt the lesson.

The Filmphone was a stressful experience. Must have dialed 50+ numbers just to get 3.A fair few rude people, but shit happens. Got told to see:

Blood Diamond
Kings speech (2)

Although stressful I now feel so much better than before I did it, more confident etc... Will do the vocal exercises later tonight. Extremely proud of myself and keeping this going, thought of bailing a lot today but didnt.

[Boom]

Good shit man, keep it up. It gets harder, but you just gotta keep motivated. I'm goin on day 10 soon, probably going to do it tomorrow because I'm heading to a buddies house for the superbowl today. Just keep pushing brother. Remember, you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain.

[NSM]

Keep at it man! I remember doing the Movie Phone thing... It's actually fun to do in groups too, see who can get to three fastest. Women will always win that game...

-NSM

[Shotz]

Awesome job valmont! I think one of the many things this challenge teaches you is to enjoy the small wins. Talking to 5 strangers and accomplishing mission 1 should be celebrated. It sounds like you've also leaned a valuable lesson, it doesnt matter what some stranger says to you. As you continue to build this frame, you will stop giving a f which will make you less reactive, more assertive, more bold and will result in women finding you more attractive. Keep up the good work and check back in!