Wrote this because it's impossible for me to answer every ?
Posted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 1:36 pm
Hello,
Bravo here, and I sent you this link because even though I spend more time helping guys on my site than any other MPUA, It's impossible for me to personally respond to everyone. More than likely I have already answered the same question, or very similar question, multiple times before here.
The random PM- PUA question thru Facebook, is the one I avoid the most. The reason being, even if I answer it, no one else is able to read it (a very ineffective use of my advice and time) and, because of all the guys who messaged me so far and never took my advice to heart, or even read this link, wasted so much of my time, I decided I had to stop.
I also decided that unless there is at least some sort of exchange in energy, and not just a "me give and you take" situation, I will send out this link.
The BEST way is of course to purchase some phone coaching or 1on1 coaching (and that pays for this site, and stuff like my food and rent)
https://stephengrosch.com/phone-coaching/
But if you can't or don't want to swing that, you at least have to offer something in exchange, even if it is just web traffic around here. Which you can do by registering for the forum, then posting your question in the correct spot. The cool thing with that is- because you offered at least something of value, then one of the solid guys around here, or even I, will try to offer you some advice with your question.
If I just give and give and give, and get nothing in return, I will end up on empty, and that isn't a good way to live for ANYONE.
I also spent YEARS learning this stuff, maxed out 2 credit cards, moved to another state, spent time on the road getting my name out there, and spent more time teaching guys for FREE- to polish up my skills than anyone else I know, all just to get to the level I am at now!
-sucks that you only found out about me recently, and missed out on those crazy sarging nights!
Now that this is my career, which I have invested more than those with Masters degrees, it isn't logical to think that I should work for free.
However, there is still away to get solid advice, without spending a penny.....
If you spend a few minutes looking around this site, you should instantly see how different it is from the rest.
NO ads
NO spam
NO BS
An active and awesome forum, with solid posts
I am the current #1 poster (name one other site where the guy who's name is at the top can claim that, or even posts at all!)
Just TONS of helpful advice, 100% FREE, and an awesome group of guys who actually are legit and help each other out.
So if you are not currently doing private coaching with me, phone coaching, or have my ONLINE GAME 2.0 program, (https://stephengrosch.com/phone-coaching/ ) then the BEST way to get your question answered is to post it on the forum in the correct area.
Added this to also answer a few questions I can bombarded with constantly-
-if you watched my Online Game presentation, enjoyed it, and are asking me for some personal feedback on your profile- the above section should cover it but also want to state- IF I did give you a personal critique on your PoF page, that wouldn't be fair to all the guys who HAVE purchased the program. They paid for the program and support me by doing so, no way I will betray the guys who are loyal for some out of the blue message asking for help.
-if you messaged me because you are having trouble email confirming your account- first off check your spam or junk box to make sure the email didn't somehow end up in there.
when you try to log in, there is a link to RESEND ACTIVATION email- try that
lastly, some email companies have filters, and because there are so many forums and blogs out there, emails sent by them sometimes get blocked before they ever make it to you. There is nothing I can do to stop this, it's very rare, it's usually email address that are provided by cable/phone companies. So if you tried to resend it and didn't get it, email me thru the CONTACT ME button at the top right of this page, include your user name and email address you used to join, I will delete them from the system, then you can re-register that user name with a different email address -sorry but best solution I have come up with in 6+ years of running forums.
-if you contacted me because of a sales promotion thru Stylelife, eg. THE FLASHING POCKET, not only did I have nothing to do with putting that all together years ago when I worked there, I actually asked that my name be removed from it before it launched and have asked for them to remove it several times since! It is just a very sneaky sales page only trying to get you to give them money and nothing special. Sorry to break it to you (I HATE shit like that and you will NEVER see anything like that around here!)
-if you contacted me to ask what I think about Stylelife and to help you with a purchase...not only is that really odd, but it puts me in a very awkward position. I am no longer affiliated with them, and have 0 knowledge on the quality of their current product and coaching staff. I have been contacted by them to try and sell seminar tickets and memberships, and would get a commission, but absolutely no way I would EVER sell or recommend a product I do not 100% believe in or support. More discussion can be found here from former students- viewtopic.php?f=17&t=339
Anyone here on the forum, guys I have coached, or even guys that I bump into will vouch that I am one of the few MPUAs who actually makes more time for students or guys than anyone else, which you can see by the amount of time and posts I have on here. There isn't one negative review anywhere online about me or my skills. There is a reason for that.
Bravo here, and I sent you this link because even though I spend more time helping guys on my site than any other MPUA, It's impossible for me to personally respond to everyone. More than likely I have already answered the same question, or very similar question, multiple times before here.
The random PM- PUA question thru Facebook, is the one I avoid the most. The reason being, even if I answer it, no one else is able to read it (a very ineffective use of my advice and time) and, because of all the guys who messaged me so far and never took my advice to heart, or even read this link, wasted so much of my time, I decided I had to stop.
I also decided that unless there is at least some sort of exchange in energy, and not just a "me give and you take" situation, I will send out this link.
The BEST way is of course to purchase some phone coaching or 1on1 coaching (and that pays for this site, and stuff like my food and rent)
https://stephengrosch.com/phone-coaching/
But if you can't or don't want to swing that, you at least have to offer something in exchange, even if it is just web traffic around here. Which you can do by registering for the forum, then posting your question in the correct spot. The cool thing with that is- because you offered at least something of value, then one of the solid guys around here, or even I, will try to offer you some advice with your question.
If I just give and give and give, and get nothing in return, I will end up on empty, and that isn't a good way to live for ANYONE.
I also spent YEARS learning this stuff, maxed out 2 credit cards, moved to another state, spent time on the road getting my name out there, and spent more time teaching guys for FREE- to polish up my skills than anyone else I know, all just to get to the level I am at now!
-sucks that you only found out about me recently, and missed out on those crazy sarging nights!
Now that this is my career, which I have invested more than those with Masters degrees, it isn't logical to think that I should work for free.
However, there is still away to get solid advice, without spending a penny.....
If you spend a few minutes looking around this site, you should instantly see how different it is from the rest.
NO ads
NO spam
NO BS
An active and awesome forum, with solid posts
I am the current #1 poster (name one other site where the guy who's name is at the top can claim that, or even posts at all!)
Just TONS of helpful advice, 100% FREE, and an awesome group of guys who actually are legit and help each other out.
So if you are not currently doing private coaching with me, phone coaching, or have my ONLINE GAME 2.0 program, (https://stephengrosch.com/phone-coaching/ ) then the BEST way to get your question answered is to post it on the forum in the correct area.
Added this to also answer a few questions I can bombarded with constantly-
-if you watched my Online Game presentation, enjoyed it, and are asking me for some personal feedback on your profile- the above section should cover it but also want to state- IF I did give you a personal critique on your PoF page, that wouldn't be fair to all the guys who HAVE purchased the program. They paid for the program and support me by doing so, no way I will betray the guys who are loyal for some out of the blue message asking for help.
-if you messaged me because you are having trouble email confirming your account- first off check your spam or junk box to make sure the email didn't somehow end up in there.
when you try to log in, there is a link to RESEND ACTIVATION email- try that
lastly, some email companies have filters, and because there are so many forums and blogs out there, emails sent by them sometimes get blocked before they ever make it to you. There is nothing I can do to stop this, it's very rare, it's usually email address that are provided by cable/phone companies. So if you tried to resend it and didn't get it, email me thru the CONTACT ME button at the top right of this page, include your user name and email address you used to join, I will delete them from the system, then you can re-register that user name with a different email address -sorry but best solution I have come up with in 6+ years of running forums.
-if you contacted me because of a sales promotion thru Stylelife, eg. THE FLASHING POCKET, not only did I have nothing to do with putting that all together years ago when I worked there, I actually asked that my name be removed from it before it launched and have asked for them to remove it several times since! It is just a very sneaky sales page only trying to get you to give them money and nothing special. Sorry to break it to you (I HATE shit like that and you will NEVER see anything like that around here!)
-if you contacted me to ask what I think about Stylelife and to help you with a purchase...not only is that really odd, but it puts me in a very awkward position. I am no longer affiliated with them, and have 0 knowledge on the quality of their current product and coaching staff. I have been contacted by them to try and sell seminar tickets and memberships, and would get a commission, but absolutely no way I would EVER sell or recommend a product I do not 100% believe in or support. More discussion can be found here from former students- viewtopic.php?f=17&t=339
Anyone here on the forum, guys I have coached, or even guys that I bump into will vouch that I am one of the few MPUAs who actually makes more time for students or guys than anyone else, which you can see by the amount of time and posts I have on here. There isn't one negative review anywhere online about me or my skills. There is a reason for that.
