Confidence in yourself...Women's Kryptonite

[Taz]

I would like to share some advice on an article I read by Adam Gilad on confidence.


By now, I am sure that everyone on here all knows that women find confidence a huge turn on. But, if you have had problems like I have had in my past, you may not always feel confident at times. Whatever the limited belief may be in your little head " I'm not rich enough, I'm not tall enough, I'm to fat, I don;t have any style ect ect"...

The reality to the above, is that you may never be able to be some of those things. However, the goods news is, you are already ENOUGH just by being yourself. Women can smell that shit from a mile away, it is like they have an automatic radar that detects when a man is present with himself.

However, if you are in a state of mind that is never learning, growing, or pushing your edges in whatever may come up in your life, than you are not present within yourself, and that is not attractive to women. Women want to see you playing the game of life with confidence, and in order to do that as a man, you must understand two things: Boldness & Clarity.

CLARITY

To women, a man without no sense of direction is not attractive. A man with no plan, is a man who is not sexy. However, a man with a plan and a sense of direction is very sexy and attractive to women. It is like their kryptonite. There are two types of clarity: Clarity of the future & Clarity of the moment.

The moment means that you are simply present right now. If and when you encounter a women, you do not haul on your shoulder your past break-ups and your rejections from other encounters, but instead when you approach a women you look at her like you can see the endless nights of hot steamy sex, and what she would look like with a load all over her face after you just face fucked the shit out of her. This comes from being present in the moment, and she will feel that.

The future is simply restating some of the previous above, in that you have a sense of direction in life and are pursuing your goals to become the better man. For example, just by being part of this forum already puts you in front of thousands of men out there. This could be your clarity in the future.

BOLDNESS

Boldness can be defined as the key element of taking action. Going after something in the face of fear. Ie; approaching that hot women you see in the corner that makes your heart beat 1000X's per minute. When you act upon that urge and fear to approach, you gain the knowledge that boldness works.

APPROACH- Maintain strong eye contact, maintain the attitude of " I am the prize, and just want to see if she is worthy of me " and you are simply going up to her to see if she could be a person you would like to invite into your life.

CONVERSATION- Want a D2, D3, or even more..then don't be afraid to ask the emotional questions, the deeper questions, find out what she genuinely values in herself, what her goals are, and what some of her happiest moments are in life. Use the three C's: Care, Curiosity, and Consciousness – meaning you stand both in the conversation and above it, so you can comment on what is happening between you from a neutral position. This allows you to take charge of the conversation and back out when you do not see something you like. It also demonstrates that you are solid and independent of the moment.

ESCALATE- Touch within the first minute of the interaction, learn how to calibrate her response to your touches. If there is fun and flirtatious energy between you, learn how to take it to the next level of kissing, with certainty and respect.

In conclusion, being present with yourself and having a goal in life sets you up for success all around. Women can smell a man with confidence, and a man who knows he is headed in the right direction. Stop putting all these limited beliefs in your head and take action today instead of delaying them tomorrow. Everyday is a baby step, and before you know it you will be oozing with confidence and having women melting in your arms.

This was an awesome article for me to read, as it reminded me to just be me!