The Bravohood

What's new with me? Well, I dated and played the game until I found a girl worth more then just some fun times. I've been in a serious relationship for over a year (longest for me). Uncharted waters and I'm venturing into deeper seas since inviting her to move in.

New job for me.. a job that is much lower stress level and more normal hours. A job that's going outside my comfort zone and requiring me to brush up on those social skills that I've let rust a bit.

It hasn't been all roses though. I've been having some health problems that have literally changed my everyday life. Nothing life threatening, but has kept me from the gym, any sports, sleep, and even makes sex a challenge!

I've been a different place in my life now for some time. A place where for a while I felt no need to be here. Still, I found myself every now and then thinking back to all the field reports, work I put in, and all the awesome guys I met at PX. Even if we never see each other again it's a bond that, for me, will last a lifetime. I'm in a place where "game" is just a small aspect of my life now. I have much more important priorities.

welcome back

Hope to see you around!

Glad that you're in a good place in life now, where things are going your way.

But I encourage you to stick around, offer advice to the new guys, since you were once where they are at. They probably would appreciate your insight, especially since you were the one who IMO experienced the greatest growth with your Project X class. There's a white belt out there thinking that he can never land a hot girl, never find a girl to love him...but you can offer your own advice & experiences on how you made it happen.

And of course, life is good for you now...but it's no guarantee that it's going to stay that way forever. I was solid with my ex for 2 years, but I still kept roots here and helped the new guys out, and now the relationship has ended, I still have a family (the Bravohood) who I can turn to for honest advice and support.

So I encourage you to stick around, contribute, share your experiences. Like Bravo said at PX, "A rising tide raises all ships."

Be that rising tide.

Well spoken.

I realize I'll probably have to earn my way back, with some, after being gone a year plus. I just didn't want a year plus to turn into two years and three years.

Just glad you're back.

Encourage you to contribute to the BH where you can

Guys coming in and not knowing how life changing this really can be

For you, if I remember correctly - you went from NEVER kissing girls on the cheek to banging multiple hot girls and relationships after PX.

So help them see it's possible

Glad you are back brother!

We all go thru changes in life.

You don't have to "earn" anything here. You always have our respect and love.

Share when you can. Help when you can. Inspire when you can. Pat on the back when you can. Is all that is asked.

Thanks for the warm welcome back guys.

I supposed the biggest change for me since I've been gone is that I started out here with a desperate drive and focus on getting laid (scarcity mentality). I think even if my relationship vanished tomorrow I wouldn't revert back to that kind of desperation ever. It's hard to put in words what a difference that makes when you have other goals and focuses in life beyond women and getting laid.

Methos wrote:Thanks for the warm welcome back guys.

I supposed the biggest change for me since I've been gone is that I started out here with a desperate drive and focus on getting laid (scarcity mentality). I think even if my relationship vanished tomorrow I wouldn't revert back to that kind of desperation ever. It's hard to put in words what a difference that makes when you have other goals and focuses in life beyond women and getting laid.

please try:)

Welcome back Methos!