I sat at the bar today...

[Footsy]

With another person from SLA that is in the same town as me... He was with a good girl, they were briniging me down with the song they were playing but made me notice, I'm just an PUA trapped in a AFC's body.

I got many IOI's from my bro's girls (sorry, everlong noticed it at the beginning) I put in a good word for him, I set the mood for her to go to him, I made it clear nothing will happen between us.. Then I went and worked a mixed set 2 guys 1 girl just to get out of the situation even though I left her alone (sorry bro)

"Well As for now I'm gonna hear the saddest songs
And sit alone and wonder
How you're making out
But as for me, I wish that I was anywhere with anyone
Making out."

Not saying I hate my life, but I'm never gonna find what I wanted out of this... I'm only gonna find girls that are nothing like my dream girls maybe have the few qualities.. but lets be honest... a short dude hooking up with a short burnette that shares same values as me... I call bull shit.

all I'm saying is being a PU is boring, and all I want is what I cant have. Maybe there is no answer to my question... but my question is simple, where and why?

And yes I've hooked up with short burnettes but location and other factors made the relationship impossible (yay me for having sex!!)

[KingOfAces]

i'm a little confused here. i understand you're saying you're confused and wondering if you can really find the person you want to be with through pickup, but a lot of what you wrote didn't really make much sense to me and i couldn't figure out what you were trying to say?

a short dude hooking up with a short burnette that shares same values as me... I call bull shit.

i have no idea what this means? are you saying you are tall and so it's bullshit that a short guy gets a girl over you? if not, let me know what you're saying. if so, you are very mistaken. height means absolutely nothing. most things that people focus on mean absolutely nothing.

and sounds like you need to do some soul searching and figure out what you are really looking for. pickup can mean a lot of different things to a lot of different people. it's not just about banging different chicks. it's about learning and mastering the necessary social skills to excel at the game. not the game of girls, the game of life. and by learning how to speak to people and handle yourself in social situations, you're giving yourself an advantage in all areas of life...

[Metz]

Are you suggesting that short brunettes cannot share the same values as you?

We both know that is bull shit on every level. I've read a lot of your posts on both forums (sla-here) and I'm getting mixed messages. Most involve drinking, hitting on girls, or a complete reverse to AFC mode for the weekend.

So I'll ask you, what my first wing asked me when I met him, that I now ask everyone that comes to me in person for the first time.

What do you want get out of the community? Why are you with us?