White Tiger Tantra AMA- and DONE

[Steve P.]

Hi Steve,

As I get older, I'm definitely finding my sexual drive waning. I can easily connect with women, and have practiced WTT and tantra to great success. I can help women connect to their sexual energy, but I find that I'm having trouble myself. What is the male equivalent to WTT? Can you recommend some practices or resources to keep my sexual energy strong? Thanks.

I would suggest sprouting and consuming fava beans. Fava beans produce dopamine and their sprouts have much larger amounts of the chemicals that cause that.

[organicaBLu]

Hi Steve P,

1. RE: the post about grapeseed oil, almond oil, etc:

What can I use when I need my boyfriend to use a condom? I believe that then all lubricants need to be water-soluble, correct?

2. What techniques can men use to stay hard but not cum right away? I've heard of breathing techniques -- raising the energy up the spine through the crown chakra -- but can you please give me more details?

3. I feel like I'm close to squirting, yet not quite there... I'm orgasmic, I feel the stimulation of my G-spot, I have the sensation of wanting to urinate, I am breathing and relaxing in my pelvic area, and I trust my partner... What are the final steps I need to take me over the ledge?

Thank you!

[Steve P.]

I have a question for Steve.


We've talked about some motorcycle stuff before-


What was your favorite bike you ever had?

What happened to it?

My '69 Shovelhead. Former cop bike with a suicide clutch.

What made it my favorite was, it was hard tail. We made a custom P pad with a piece of metal with some foam rubber on it that would sit right on the taint of the girl sitting behind me. Just the low rumble of the Harley's engine vibrating up through the frame into her ass would soon have her humping my back like a poodle on viagra.

To which, in my compassionate biker nature, I would let the nice lady know that she was sitting on real leather and not to ruin my seat.

I've mellowed out a lot since then and sold all my motorcycles.

[Salome_Indira]

Is there anything that I can do intimately on my own, by myself, to strengthen my own sexual energies? Likewise, would you find it wrong of me if I sought out a teacher in WTT, that is without informing my partner? Note, we are not married, I am in my mid-thirties, and he is near to turning forty, and we live together.

BTW, I am an attractive woman, I do not want to grow old because of this shit.. My not having orgasms when I have a very virile, capable, and endowed man lying next to me every damned night IS KILLING ME!!!!

[tentrik]

it isn't minding that you answered a call for help

it's about responding to a question that was asked to Steve

JUST like you wouldn't want someone who just signed up, with 1 post responding to the question YOU asked Steve, let's be respectful to the others

Okay Bravo, point understood and I won't post any more replies to questions asked to the WTT folks.
I did feel called to respond to a person's ask for help.
But I do believe in respecting boundaries at least when I am not pushing them.
So, hopefully no harm no foul.
I'm here for the right reasons.

[Steve P.]

In general massage, how much is too much pressure? My girlfriend likes receiving her massages extremely rough. She prefers high pressure, pointy movements that might not be the best form, I wonder. I know that myself and others I've massaged prefer a lighter warm up and then heavier/deeper pressure applied later using a larger surface area in movements that correspond to muscles and bones. I'm confident using my fingers to work through knots, but she likes a high pressure elbow moving almost indiscriminately around her back- kinda seems dangerous, and I suppose I don't understand what feels good about it to her.

How do you feel about her preference for an almost stabbing pressure? The last thing I want to do is to damage her muscles/nerves/anything at all.

I saw a friend's copy of the WWT dvds, and they contain a lot of great information about massage. . Here, I'm looking for a mini refresher and your specific perspective on this, as it is my first girlfriend to prefer her massages this way. Thanks!

Hey Xander

I'd be careful while doing those types of massage untrained

We teach how to warm the muscle up before working on it and then down afterwards to prevent creating tears or bruising in the muscle tissue.

The other issue is you place too much pressure on say, the place where the rib floats next to the spine, you can pop a rib out.

I would check out a massage for couples class in your area.

[donW]

Hi Steve,
In your DVDs you mention that there are exercises women should do to keep their bodies/hips/etc more relaxed. Can you give us ladies a better idea of what we should be doing exactly?

Thanks from Montreal

From Steve:
"Dear thanks from Montreal,
Exercises such as Yoga and Pilates are great for increasing relaxation.
We actually use P.N.F. stretches to increase flexibility and R.O.M., from using these there, will be more fluidity of movement in the hips and pelvic region."

[Steve P.]

So my husband and I have just recently learned about WTT and I was very intrigued I have never been able to reach orgasm without the aide of a vibrator. Recently I've done some research on vibrators and have come to find out that by using a vibrator I have been sabotaging my sex life and its become increasingly hard to reach orgasm even with a vibrator! I made a decision a month ago to stop using any aides....it's been an exciting and frustrating month!! I've been able to reach an orgasm (clitoral) 4 times! I know this may not sound impressive to some, but it's a whole new thing for me!! I was literally jumping up and down with excitement after it happened the first time.

Anyway....now I'd like to take this a step further...

We've tried working on g-spot orgasms a couple of times, although he hasn't started the massages yet, I think he's a little intimidated. Last night we tried working with the G-spot, it felt great, I ended up having a clitoral orgasm while my husband was working the g-spot. I squirted....however....it was pee....bummer lol

I didn't think it was pee because after I came and soaked everything and then I had to pee really bad. So I am confused and I don't know how to differentiate between peeing and coming. What do we do?

This is a question that women always ask. Men always know the difference between cumming and going.

Here's the deal, when you ejaculate, it all comes through the urethra. When it doubt, do a taste test.

I'm saying you ejaculated. If you soaked the sheets and still had to pee. We chalk that up to a 'wet spot'

Which reminds me, while practicing this stuff, you should find yourself a reasonably affordable massage table to practice on.

You can kill a high end mattress quickly with bodily fluids.

[Katey45]

Any recommendations for what can be done solo?

[Steve P.]

Hi Steve,

1. Are you multiorgasmic? Or you just have 10 sec orgasm after ejaculating? What techniques do you use?

2. What concepts from Don Juan Matus do you currently use? How Carlos Castaneda has influenced you?

3. What is the best way to learn hypnosis? specific action steps and guidelines?

Thanks for your work

Hey Ingola,

1. There are techniques to take you from "a minute man" to have male multiple orgasms. That technique is called Edging but is WAY beyond the scope of this AMA.

2. Their teachings have nothing to do with White Tiger Tantra. Both have influenced me. I think anyone who has eaten mushrooms, or taken peyote have been influenced by them for their work to popularize using sacred plants to communicate with the spirit world.

3. email me at steve@stevepiccus.com, I want to keep this about White Tiger Tantra.