White Tiger Tantra AMA- and DONE

[Steve P.]

So you are suggesting that we stop using vibrators if we want to get to full body orgasms?

Hi Katey,

Are you aware that they used to use vibrators in surgery because it desensitized the nerves? And that was on the outside of the body. And when women use them on the inside, it desensitizes those nerves as well.

What I'm suggesting is is that every woman has a right to stuff whatever they want into their vagina.

Do you want to develop the skills to increase your sustained pleasure or have short term gains by desensitizing it?

White Tiger Tantra is focused on long term benefits rather than short term self gratifications.

[Steve P.]

Steve, Dan and Don..
Good to see you guyz here and thanks for the great learning that I received from you guyz.
Definitely making my hands DIRTY and helping women release their stress

My questions :
1. During yang style, most females are tightening their vagina because that's how they are used to do while having sex. Is this going to constrain their ability to orgasm ?
What shd I do to let them relax their muscles while working on yang style
2. When do you generally stop a session ? (If the girl doesn't squirt. )

Hey Sid,

Don't just stick to Yang style. You have to mix the routine up.

Move to flicking the frisbee, or go back to ambiguous touching.

Remember the slower you go, the faster you will proceed.

[danguess]

This is really cool, thanks for doing this Steve, Dan, Don, and Bob.


My question is about hypnosis, specifically dual induction. Maestro and I were discussing it after the most recent Project X, and how it could be something fun to do with friends, or with new friends you are in the process of making.

Obviously not looking to do the really deep and powerful stuff like you do, and not trying to manipulate anyone either....but a nice, fun, positive thing to do. Like another DHV in the toolbox.


What advice or resources would you recommend for building this skill, and any pointers for doing it with friends and/or people you just met?

Also, anything to be careful about? We tried doing it with one of the PX Alums at the reunion, and he seemed sort of spacey for the next day or so.

Hey Farmer,

I'd be careful doing it that way. I'd really recommend taking some classes on traditional hypnosis before jumping into doing dual inductions with friends and new friends.

The primary issue is that there may be unintended suggestions that you give while doing the induction as well as dealing with an abreaction if it occurs. An abreaction is when someone goes into a negative experience not like they are remembering it but as if it is actually happening all over again.

It took a lot of time for me to develop my ability to keep up with Steve doing a dual induction. And it is not anything I would recommend trying to someone just learning hypnosis.

[nathanexplosionw]

Hey guys, thanks again for doing the ama! i have a question about stacking orgasms, im still new to this and have only done it once. I usually eat the vagina until she is about to orgasm, then i stop and go back to kissing her everywhere else, and then back down to build it up. Is this the best way to stack 4 or 5 orgasms together?

[Salome_Indira]

Good Evening Ladies and Gents!

I have done a fairly moderate amount of research on White Tiger Tantra and I was very intrigued with the information, stimulation, and occupation of the beautiful art of seduction and spirituality. I am likewise very pleased and gracious for the opportunity to gain greater insight into the practice as well as my own sexuality and sensuality.

I do have a question for you gentlemen this evening. I would like to what I can do to gain better pleasure, aside from my giving of it, being as I am in a loving relationship with a man who is unfortunately anything but sensual? I find it nearly impossible to maintain moisture within my vaginal walls, let alone achieve an orgasm, due to his near selfishness in the bedroom, lack of intimacy (issues with it), lack of desire to truly know my fierce sexy side which would please me greatly, and again lack of sensuality. I mean I have combed every inch of his body, watching his bodily reactions, listened to his inner sex being speaking to me, and unselfishly given him pleasure unlike any other man that I have ever made love to. And yet... NOTHING. He seems ashamed and sadly even disgusted when I speak to him about sex and my fantasies. I try everything that I can to keep the spice going in the bedroom, toys, lingerie, lube, outstanding head, role play... I mean you name it.. and even in those moments of my trying he still seems somewhat too reserved or even embarassed.

Please.. I love him dearly, but I must be honest I am no longer truly turned on by him, although he is a very sexy, finger-looking good man. I also secretly desire to bed someone else, if just for the ability to have orgasms. Oh and by the way.. I have practiced several times on him, some of the basics of white tantra felllatio.. and nothing.

Please help!

[Salome_Indira]

Correction: I would like to "KNOW" what I can do to gain better pleasure, aside from my giving of it, being as I am in a loving relationship with a man who is unfortunately anything but sensual?

[Steve P.]

Do the women you work on ever report feeling raw inside after the internal massage? It seems like on your dvds you're are using quite a bit of force inside for a long time.

Hey James,

No. They feel very et-raw-tic and sensual.

If they're raw you're not using enough coconut or grapeseed oil.

Get'em lubed, then crank up the juice and cut her loose.

[Irish]

First off Steve, Dan, Don & Bob, thank you for being here.

Since most of us aren’t professional massage therapists, can you describe the types of knots, tension, spasms you are looking for during massage, both interior and exterior. What exactly are you feeling for?

[donW]

Is the vagina less sensitive after a session making sex not as good for her following the session?

Is the parasympathetic system where the glans connect ONTOP of the spine going forward to thee abs & skin? Also does it go up into the brain including pituitary&pineal gland?

Whats tend/befriend mean

The vagina is WAY more sensitized after a session, so sex becomes way better.

On the anatomy question, just check a book on that, it’s really clear. On the glandular aspect, both the sympathetic and para-sympathetic N.S. are intimately connected into the hormonal system.

On TEND AND BEFRIEND, it’s important in W.T.T. to get her out of the TEND AND BEFRIEND, mainly by getting her out of sympathetic N.S. response. When men are in this sympathetic NS reaction, they respond by FIGHT OR FLIGHT.

W.T.T. gets her out of the sympathetic N.S where she will release endorphins that go cascading through her neurology, creating a natural high which we call being love drunk. It’s a beautiful state of mind
Don

[tentrik]

Hi Salome_Indira,

I have seen and been through this many times.
A few random thoughts:

Is he open and fiercely dedicated to change? He has to have the desire and intention that will persist through hell and high water. If he doesn't... he's never going to meet your needs.

There IS that 1 out of 100 person who is willing to do it. Find out his intention. If he is that 1 person then you can direct him to somebody who can teach him.

If you're emotionally committed then that may compromise your ability to be his teacher. Also ask if you want to bear the burden of being his teacher.

You can only change yourself. You can never make the choice to change for another.

hth