Done for the night--Jan. 13, 2014--Smoothcall Q&A at 7 p.m

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Re: Let's get Started--Jan. 13, 2014--Smoothcall Q&A at 7 p.

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I called a couple numbers and got voicemail so I know atleast those are legit. Don't know about the ones I texted. Anyways, your responses definitely gave me some insight.

On to my third question... Let's say I've already got a number from a girl at that bar and the night is still young. Would it be a bad idea to hit on a few other girls there as well, or do you think she wouldn't have a problem with that? does making out with another girl where she can see it, then calling her the next day count as social proof or suicide?
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Re: Let's get Started--Jan. 13, 2014--Smoothcall Q&A at 7 p.

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Here's my last question:

I've noticed that my skills are weak in both storytelling and humor. I've been working on both, but it looks like it's going to be quite a time investment to get them up. Which one do you think would be more beneficial to improve? (my storytelling is OK, my humor is very hit-and-miss). Is it worth training humor to a very high degree, or is it one of those things where a little goes a long way?
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Re: Let's get Started--Jan. 13, 2014--Smoothcall Q&A at 7 p.

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Smoothcall wrote: I would never travel just to spend some time with a woman that I was not pretty damn serious about. That said, if I had an additional reason to go to that city, I would for sure include some time with the woman in the plans. I know there aren't a lot of women in Nebraska, but really, traveling that distance for some pussy seems desperate, needy, or too much interest. Right, you said you don't want a relationship? She doesn't want one? That's a big investment for something that's not a relationship.

Okay, now another idea is something like this: "I've been planning a trip to SOME TOURIST SPOT IN FLORIDA. That's not so far from you, is it? You should get away for a day or two and come hang out with me."
Ok, yea. Good call. I think I need to separate my desire to "do more, whenever, sounds good to me" attitude away from my "game" just a little bit. While that adventurous spirit is a huge turn-on to women, it obviously got pushed a bit far here. It really would be only for pussy, if I were to go to Atlanta.

Standing back a bit, yea, it does seem a bit ridiculous. The amount of effort, that is...even if it's nothing to me. Thanks, Smooth!
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Re: Let's get Started--Jan. 13, 2014--Smoothcall Q&A at 7 p.

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Stiegl3 wrote:I called a couple numbers and got voicemail so I know atleast those are legit. Don't know about the ones I texted. Anyways, your responses definitely gave me some insight.

On to my third question... Let's say I've already got a number from a girl at that bar and the night is still young. Would it be a bad idea to hit on a few other girls there as well, or do you think she wouldn't have a problem with that? does making out with another girl where she can see it, then calling her the next day count as social proof or suicide?
Sometimes there's no right answer to a question like this. It depends on who the girl is and how much interest she has.

But consider that a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, right?
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Re: Let's get Started--Jan. 13, 2014--Smoothcall Q&A at 7 p.

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Stiegl3 wrote:Here's my last question:

I've noticed that my skills are weak in both storytelling and humor. I've been working on both, but it looks like it's going to be quite a time investment to get them up. Which one do you think would be more beneficial to improve? (my storytelling is OK, my humor is very hit-and-miss). Is it worth training humor to a very high degree, or is it one of those things where a little goes a long way?
One kind of goes with the other, don't you think?

But regardless, I suggest you go with the one that interests you the most.
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Re: Let's get Started--Jan. 13, 2014--Smoothcall Q&A at 7 p.

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Okay, thanks. Calling it a night.
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Re: Done for the night--Jan. 13, 2014--Smoothcall Q&A at 7 p

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Hey, thanks for the responses smoothcall. I know I sent you quite a few questions, so I appreciate the effort. Definitely some good insight there.

Thanks again!
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