I agree with Tech's dad as well. There is no such thing as a fair fight. Do what you have to do as quickly as you can and get out. Deescalation is always the first step, but if not possible, striking is much safer than grappling in a multiple opponent situation and in a situation where weapons may be involved. That's the main reason I view grappling as secondary to striking, although its absolutely a needed skill.
Only thing I disagree with Tech about is kicking them in the nuts. Men are naturally prone to protecting this area and instinctively react. There is also a delay of pain anywhere from a few seconds to a minute and if there is an adrenaline rush, the opponent can push through the pain. If you've been in a fight, you've probably experienced this. You don't feel much, but later, feel it a lot. A lot of guys can be knocked out from a punch. Remember, a punch with no gloves on is very different than a punch with gloves.
Stealth, my personal opinion is that with no weapons striking is best. Strikes that can do as much damage as possible-bunches, elbows, etc. If you are good at kicking, keep the kicks low so you doin't fall. I got punched in the face one night and when I hit back, he doubled over. I kicked his ribs and I found out later I had broke them.
Obviously spacial awareness, looking for an out, being aware of possible threats, etc., are also key. But just get the fuck out is even better.
Self defense in bar situations
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Re: Self defense in bar situations
Here's what happened the last time the A-team got into a fight in a bar. Stealth was dancing with this girl. Probably why he started this thread. I was on the phone.
Mack was there too (he's the Asian guy)
Mack was there too (he's the Asian guy)
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a-team's got nothing on bar fights. too much fancy dancing around and showmanship in the above video. i'll show you how we do it it jersey with THE COMPANY.
here's a video of me on the seaside heights boardwalk last weekend, when some stranger recognized me from somewhere (must have been facebook), and he tries coming at me. his girl was trying to beat my ass too, i actually number closed her afterwards.
COME AT ME BRO!!!
here's a video of me on the seaside heights boardwalk last weekend, when some stranger recognized me from somewhere (must have been facebook), and he tries coming at me. his girl was trying to beat my ass too, i actually number closed her afterwards.
COME AT ME BRO!!!
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Be social! There's no such thing as a cold approach if you know everyone.
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Be social! There's no such thing as a cold approach if you know everyone.
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and there was that time that annoying girl wouldn't leave me alone while i tried talking to her friend.
this is a little routine i call "disarming the obstacle"
this is a little routine i call "disarming the obstacle"
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Stay Thirsty My Friends...
Be social! There's no such thing as a cold approach if you know everyone.
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Stay Thirsty My Friends...
Be social! There's no such thing as a cold approach if you know everyone.
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Lol, I almost posted that same Snooki clip.
Didn't know if you wanted your face seen though.
Didn't know if you wanted your face seen though.
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"Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habbits, your habbits become your character, your character becomes your destiny." From the book Get Selected
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Re: Self defense in bar situations
lol!!!
KoA, you should be ashamed of yourself hitting Snookie like that....
...because you didn't even knock her down!! If that were me, she would wake up in a puddle of her own blood spitting chiclets!
KoA, you should be ashamed of yourself hitting Snookie like that....
...because you didn't even knock her down!! If that were me, she would wake up in a puddle of her own blood spitting chiclets!


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THE COMPANY
Stay Thirsty My Friends...
Be social! There's no such thing as a cold approach if you know everyone.
THE COMPANY
Stay Thirsty My Friends...
Be social! There's no such thing as a cold approach if you know everyone.
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Hahahaha.
So are you the old guy in the MJ jacket KoA or the player cheating on his fiance? Or both? The plot thickens.
So are you the old guy in the MJ jacket KoA or the player cheating on his fiance? Or both? The plot thickens.
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Re: Self defense in bar situations
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!Maestro wrote:Here's what happened the last time the A-team got into a fight in a bar. Stealth was dancing with this girl. Probably why he started this thread. I was on the phone.
Mack was there too (he's the Asian guy)


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