Bodybuilding??

[gladiator]

thanks guys. this advice really helps =D i appreciate it.

[Thiga]

You have no control over your height. Your body might grow vertical a bit more but it wont be because you did or didnt do a certain thing. So the message is, dont set height as a goal, since its not something you can work towards.

i have a friend here in Toronto.....casual friend i suppose, He's a professional bodybuilder. One of the best in Canada, if he's 5'6 I would be surprised but he's 250 pounds. Its faster to climb over top of him then try to walk around him. He has a beautiful wife but like was mentioned before, she is in that scene as well. The last time we went out, I noticed he gets lots of looks but its more because he looks so freakish. He is way out of proportion for his height and while people look its wasnt always positive.

I think it might actually DLV him in the sense that you have to be fanatical OCDish to get that size. I wonder if women pick up that aspect of his personality from just his size?

If you go to any Thai or mma gym, the guys are in great shape but not huge. just solid and low body fat, that will appeal to most wide range of women. Get to big your pigeon holing yourself. Thats my opinion FFIW.