Goals!

[tornapathy]

I have written out my goals like Hypnocita says to.

I am a ladies man, a real Casanova. My self esteem is not dependent on the outcome of success with women, but my high self esteem helps attract women of caliber. They are attracted to me because of my ability to be different then every other guy, my intelligence, my humor, my social confidence, my ability to be non needy, self sufficient, and charming. My sexuality oozes from my pores. I go on 6 dates a week with high quality women, that are smart, sensual, very attractive, enjoy enlightening endeavors, are comfortable staying home or going out, don't depend on me to provide happiness. We compliment each other greatly. We also enjoy the the company of other women in our sexual endeavors. The women I date are a mixture of heights, they have great breasts, big and full. They are healthy weights, active and fit. We share many things in common but also are different. They are all a bit nerdy video games, comics. Thy enjoy life and my presence.

This is still a work in progress as I try to define myself and the charastics of the women who I feel would make me inspire to even greater heights than I plan for myself.

[sweetcheeks]

Very nice. I'd recommend getting a legal pad and writing out your goals when you wake up and when you go to bed.

Also it might be better for some of your goals to add actionable and measurable statements instead of having everything result oriented.

Ex: I approach and open 10 attractive girls every day and go on 6 dates a week. That way YOUR goals are a result of YOU not of your environment.

The HAVE part of the goal is very important, it is what motivates you and help you push yourself.
But the thing that you can DO today are just as critically important.

For my goals I've started make it a list in the same 'now' format as yours, but I have bullet points under each goal on my immediate intermediate steps, the why I want that that goal, the details that help me visualize it, and a deadline.

All that being said, I do like your goals. Go for it dude!

[tornapathy]

I have set objectivity in the goal. Near the top. On certain goals you can do that, on others you just have to simplify it enough to make it approachable and the reason why and what for. You can't change yourself without knowing why you need to change.