How to overcome not having a vehicle.
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tornapathy
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How to overcome not having a vehicle.
So, I have a question. I am trying to go out and enjoy my life but I don't have traditional transportation. I have a Moped. With that being stated I am still trying to overcome this and go out and meet woman and practice my social skills. Does anyone have any suggestions. Right now my funds are pretty tied up with trying to get a car, but that is no excuse. Thanks.
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Cinema
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Re: How to overcome not having a vehicle.
Where do you live? Can you walk to a lot of places? What about public transportation? Is your place close enough that you could call a cab after you pick up a lady? Also - you could easily just bang girls at THEIR place. Turn your weakness into a strength.
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tornapathy
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Re: How to overcome not having a vehicle.
I live in Huntersville, NC. It's got public transportation buses, cabs, uber. Walking is a little bit far. Yeah my place is located like almost dead center of everything everything is about 10 minutes from me
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Cinema
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Re: How to overcome not having a vehicle.
Ok, then I don't see much of an issue. You walk/bike to where ever you are gaming. Grab an uber back to your place or hers if needed. Don't let it get into your head that if you don't have a car it's going to hold you back. Just have a plan ready for when you need it.
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tornapathy
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Re: How to overcome not having a vehicle.
I guess it's me building up to go out without that. Haha, alright I am going to try and go out this weekend. I am hoping to have my first actual FR for you guys.
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Re: How to overcome not having a vehicle.
My buddy Gareth got a DUI in LA and couldn't drive for a year. Wasn't an issue.
I planned almost every date in LA at a spot that was walking distance from my place. So easy to have her drive me back home "around the street" after.
When I moved back to Phx. I picked a spot that had tons of places around it so I wouldn't HAVE to drive. I got spoiled in LA.
Only an issue if you let it be one.
How do guys on Vespas in Italy get laid???
I planned almost every date in LA at a spot that was walking distance from my place. So easy to have her drive me back home "around the street" after.
When I moved back to Phx. I picked a spot that had tons of places around it so I wouldn't HAVE to drive. I got spoiled in LA.
Only an issue if you let it be one.
How do guys on Vespas in Italy get laid???
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tornapathy
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Re: How to overcome not having a vehicle.
How do those guys get laid?!?! I think it's a 90% mental game with me. I get too into my own head and just say fuck it and don't feel the growth of moving forward.
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Re: How to overcome not having a vehicle.
Dealing with the same issue. It will be 2.5 years before i can drive due to a DUI ( fuck me ). But like Cinema said weakness into a strength. Currently I am working on my PU skills in a way that chics get so interested in me that they want to come pick me up, come where I am at, or invite me over to thier place. I use Uber and Lyft a lot and public transportation. I live in downtown Norfolk, VA so lots to do nearby. So like Bravo said its not an issue unless you let it be one. Ive been on 8 dates in the past month and a half with no issues.
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Re: How to overcome not having a vehicle.
Guys. This is an awesome opportunity to raise your game to the next level. I had a dui when I first started this and now I'm kind of a pro at not driving. Mopeds are awesome. I have one and ride it everywhere. If you hold the frame that it's normal for girls to come to you and pick you up, then they'll fall into it too. Also you could just ride your scooter to their place. It's what I do
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Nicolo
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Re: How to overcome not having a vehicle.
http://bravopua.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php ... 682#p74682Bravo said : My buddy Gareth got a DUI in LA and couldn't drive for a year. Wasn't an issue.
Link to a video of Gareth that one of the guys posted on this topic when I talked about my situation. Just scroll down and you will see it.
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