DJ/Ice coaching thread Post PX5

[Lego]

Is this still going on?

Yes, replying soon!

Ok cool.

[DJNinja]

FR? Alright, you've got it. Any tips on getting past the initial AA before I'm warmed up? I'd hate for my FR to be like the last one, where my wing and I couldn't get past the AA and ended up feeling like complete tools.

Great question! Often it's the first 1-2 sets that are the hardest, but once you break through that, then it becomes much easier.

So decide in advance that the first 1-2 sets (or more, if needed) are throwaway sets, where you open simply for the sake of (1) getting into a social, talkative state, and (2) building social proof so that people see you as a fun, social guy. With those sets, don't go in thinking of going through a full stack; simply approach, run your opener, and eject.

The first set may feel awkward, the second set will be better, but once the sets start clicking and responding well, you'll be in a much better state.

[DJNinja]

What was the best way you guys got over AA. My gut is telling me to just do it and get it over with and that it will honestly go away with time and enough successful approaches will breed that success mindset attitude which will in turn decrease the amount of approach anxiety and turn it into a fun thing rather than a grueling chore i don't look forward to.

LOL, see my response to Syrrah's second question

[Lego]

What was the best way you guys got over AA. My gut is telling me to just do it and get it over with and that it will honestly go away with time and enough successful approaches will breed that success mindset attitude which will in turn decrease the amount of approach anxiety and turn it into a fun thing rather than a grueling chore i don't look forward to.

LOL, see my response to Syrrah's second question

That's what I was thinking. I honestly prefer the direct approach ever since Bravo and Maestro turned me onto it when I did try it, it did not go as bad as I thought it would and in fact felt better and went alot smoother than beating around the bush.

[DJNinja]

hey guys, just wanted to drop in and thank you for being so awesome last weekend.

about to jump on my plane home, chillin at LAX trying to keep my eyes open so I fall asleep on the flight.


I do have a question as well. if Im hanging at a club with two girls, one is ugly and i want to fuck the other one. do you have any suggestions with how to play?

i.e last night in town, number close is useless.

Normally, I'd number-close both and then follow up with the hotter one later, but in this case, since it's last night in town and number close is useless, then it's SNL game.

Remember: there are three things necessary for an SNL: good target selection, good logistics, and a strong frame. Assuming that you're logistics were good, it comes down to having a strong frame and a willing girl.

You could go for the threesome.

Or you could have simply told your target that you want to spend time with her, so have her ditch her friend. If your frame is strong enough and you have turned her on enough, she will ditch her friend to hang out with you.

You: "Hey, let's head back to my hotel room, but lose your friend; she's not fun."

If you've escalated enough and built up her sexual buying temperature, then she'll do it.

[Monteray]

ok ya makes sense. so need to just put it out there, and if you get blown out then game not tight enough before hand.

[Monteray]

I didn't even try that, was thinking to myself that would have to take both or none. so would have rather got blown out than not try. next time will fix

i sort of pussy foot around then, i thought they said they lived in downtown, so i was like ya lets go back to your house to both. then they are going to some college half an hour away. so i just left them and went to another bar.

[Ice]

hey guys, just wanted to drop in and thank you for being so awesome last weekend.

about to jump on my plane home, chillin at LAX trying to keep my eyes open so I fall asleep on the flight.


I do have a question as well. if Im hanging at a club with two girls, one is ugly and i want to fuck the other one. do you have any suggestions with how to play?

i.e last night in town, number close is useless.

Monte! It was great having you with us - and you opening the first set in PX before we got to restaurant... damn good


could tell friend that you are going to hit on her friend, and mini-isolate (so target has her back to friend and you are on other side)

could do bay's tequila routine and get her to the bar

[Ice]

What was the best way you guys got over AA. My gut is telling me to just do it and get it over with and that it will honestly go away with time and enough successful approaches will breed that success mindset attitude which will in turn decrease the amount of approach anxiety and turn it into a fun thing rather than a grueling chore i don't look forward to.

We all get aa sometimes


and getting in a fun state with higher energy will help kill aa - at least it does for me


so figuring what gets you into that state


is it telling a hot HG that she's fucking sexy and would do bad things to her if she wasn't married

is it having your wingman embarrass you in set

is it hearing your wingman go up to a lingerie clerk and say he's here to try on some lingerie!



try out some things and when you go past the point of absurdity, aa just goes away = what I've found