Guilty Pleasure wrote:Lived this past year completely different than the prior year.
In from January to March I got my balls back (went through a tiny bitch phase).
I kept putting in a shit ton of work from JAN to APRIL and then attended Project X4.
I met our coaches, made life time bonds and learned and refined shit out life and pick up.
Afterwards I was kicking ass juggling 3 chicks and doing shit with less thinking and more second nature behavior.
I was getting closer to becoming the man I wanted to be.
Although that is somewhat on pause considering I found a pretty cool chick. I still am not the man I want to be. I am still somewhat in field and am also learning about myself and what I want/what I will tolerate. Also re learned a couple of things like leading and upping my sex game.
The year is now closed but I have more goals in mind. The journey is far from over. I will continue to do work and continue towards being a better man.
Also need to thank the coaches and Bravo for giving me sound advice through out the years. It is greatly appreciated and has definately helped!
K.C.
P.S. I also gained mental freedom and courage to take my own path in life as far as careers and owning my future. This all came from failures and the urgency surrounding my living situation.
So glad I met you in AZ man. I like what you said - just one thing I'm curious about
How come you've taken a pause from becoming the man you want to be? Is it because you're in a relationship?
Is it important that your relationship(s) help support you and your growth?
I used poor wording.. Let me rephrase.. My work towards being a man is never on pause. What is slightly paused is the going out and fucking around part. Not tryin to cheat but I am trying to find ways to stay extremely social and to always have the upper hand in any social atmosphere.
^^this is something I NEVER want to lose. Also feel like there is more work to be done
My relationship does help and support my journey. It actually is bringing. Out a lot of positivity .
Picked up two hot blondes on NYE, I'm going to do a FR but just haven't got around to it. pretty much the first day I have had at home for three weeks.
anywayI was with one, my wing was with the other one, kiss closed, number closed etc, went dancing for a bit then left them and went to talk to others, then they came back later.
so now like 2am, we get out of the club on way to train station. problems
Can't go to my place, takes like 1 hour on train.
Girls are staying at relatives house in inner west.
only option is wing mans house which is 15 minute cab ride.
push for wing mans house but doesn't work, they get cold feet and want to go home.
want to know if logistics was the problem or maybe something else? hanging with them too much maybe?
or not coming up with a good enough reason why going back to wing mans house? i.e it was kind of like lets go back to X house and even though it wasn't like lets go and bang you senseless that was kind of obvious
Agreeing with Ice, probably more info needed, but in general, SNLs require three things to happen: a strong sexual frame, willing targets, and good logistics. Sounds like you had the right frame and willing targets (if not, they wouldn't have looked for you at the end of the night), and it was simply a matter of having logistics that worked.
Good that you realised that your place wouldn't have worked (an hour train ride away), and that their place wasn't ideal.
Did you seed a McGuffin at your friend's house as a reason to go? "Hey, my friend has an awesome bacon art collection at his place, I think it's awesome and he's going to be world-famous for it one day. Why don't you come over and check it out, we'll also crack open a nice bottle of champagne to toast in the new year."
Or if your frame has been solidly sexual the whole night, you could have simply gone with the truth: "We're going back to my friend's place and I'm going to fuck you sore."
Yeah no didn't seed anything at all, I guess it was kind of a bitch out. Tell them to come back to his house we all know what that means but didn't have the balls to say it straight up. I was actually kicking myself the next day because I didn't say anything. Thinking that I Could have just started whispering in her ear all the things I wanted to do to her. But by then it was way too late
And even if that didn't work at least I wouldn't have bitched it
Picked up two hot blondes on NYE, I'm going to do a FR but just haven't got around to it. pretty much the first day I have had at home for three weeks.
anywayI was with one, my wing was with the other one, kiss closed, number closed etc, went dancing for a bit then left them and went to talk to others, then they came back later.
so now like 2am, we get out of the club on way to train station. problems
Can't go to my place, takes like 1 hour on train.
Girls are staying at relatives house in inner west.
only option is wing mans house which is 15 minute cab ride.
push for wing mans house but doesn't work, they get cold feet and want to go home.
want to know if logistics was the problem or maybe something else? hanging with them too much maybe?
or not coming up with a good enough reason why going back to wing mans house? i.e it was kind of like lets go back to X house and even though it wasn't like lets go and bang you senseless that was kind of obvious
Without knowing more about your FR I can only comment that logistics are important - you'll want to figure that out before hand
It is one of the important factors but not the only one
tell us more when you can
I gathered you probably need more info, but I asked because I'm not sure if the logistics was the only thing,it sounds like a good excuse, but I have a feeling there was more to it.
i'll get a FR posted as soon as I can and pm you to have a look if thats cool?
Yea, absolutely! Like I said, you'll be learning more of this in AZ so - something to look forward to.
I was gonna have a night off and do it, but now I'm on a train to the city to go out so I'll try and get it done Saturday morning.. I have a few I need to post from the last few weeks as well.
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