Im obese!

[jigsaw]

So my doctor just told me I have a BMI of 30, enough to be considered obese. I am 190 pounds and have a height of 5'7. I have plans to eat better and start exercising. What I really want to ask is, is there any one here that has or knows someone who has my body type and still gets a decent amount of sex with attractive women?

[stone]

Self limitiing belief. Get rid of it. I'm 5'10 and 235ish with 25ish% body fat. Got laid when I was fatter then that and I've got laid when I was leaner then that. Absolutely anything is possible.

Check out johnny soporno in the link below. Hes far from lean and he still gets laid just fine.

http://bravopua.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=18&t=8540

If you dont like something about your self then change it. Hit the gym and if your diet is shit start out simple for now. Cut out soda and cut out fast food and see what happens with a bit of time in the gym.

[Methos]

So my doctor just told me I have a BMI of 30, enough to be considered obese. I am 190 pounds and have a height of 5'7. I have plans to eat better and start exercising. What I really want to ask is, is there any one here that has or knows someone who has my body type and still gets a decent amount of sex with attractive women?

This is an easily disproved limited belief. Haven't you ever been to a bar or anywhere and seen a really hot chick with some fat ugly guy and wonder what the fuck she sees in him? There are reminders everywhere that looks don't matter.

Plans are good start. Now tell us those plans and when you're going to execute on them.

[Cinema]

No one will deny that being in great shape helps to pick up chicks but it's definitely not essential. You could be the best looking guy in the world and still gave no game.

The most important thing is your Confidence.

Things like your appearance, your clothing, your experience, etc. all add to or subtract from your confidence. More importantly, how you perceive yourself largely determines how these attributes affect your confidence. The other guys are right, your weight is a limiting belief that is subtracting big time from your confidence. But that's because you're allowing it to.

There are only two ways to fix your problem:

1.) You start eating better and hit the gym regularly.

2.) You change your mental perception that your weight is a negative thing.

Doing one or the other will work but I recommend you do both.

[DJNinja]

Your autocorrect is broken, I'm sure you meant to type "I'm sexy" but it came out wrong

Ditto what everybody said. If you think that you are fat, then guess what? You are. But if you know that you are a sexy uncaged beast with a hot cock that EVERY girl should be lucky to have, then guess what?

Keep this in mind: YOU are the prize, no matter how you look. And in the meantime, set some workout and nutrition goals to get you from looking sexy to RIDICULOUSLY SEXXXXXXY.

[Nicolo]

I recommend searching the internet for pics of guys that are overweight and still have beautiful women. It will help break up that limiting belief. And when you are feeling down about it just visualize those pics or videos you saw of overweight guys with hot women. You could also look at research on what women want in men and see what traits you already have, what ones you want, and what you dont want.

[BlueDevils]

Agree with what a lot of people in this thread have said.

Some girls actually like guys who are husky. But on the other side of the coin, some girls just aren't attracted to overweight guys. Remember, when you're meeting a girl for the first time, all she has to judge you by is based on your looks (this is before you've opened your mouth). Girls tend to like guys that appear to take care of themselves, so start eating clean and training hard at the gym.

More importantly, do it for your own health.

[Methos]

Oh man this guy I work with is one fat ugly fucker. I was walking into the building and saw him get out of the car with a perfect Asian 9. He intro'd me and it's his wife.

I thought you of jigsaw and this post. Really fucking blew my mind. This guy is even a bigger nerd than I am. If he can do it so can you, me, or anyone else!

and were is your update jigsaw?

[jigsaw]

Ive started to get on the treadmill each day. Diet could be going a lot better. Still trying to get stuff together. Maybe join a gym after New Years.