DJ & Ice:Positive Affirmations/Setting a WINNING Frame-DONE

[Monteray]

Take 2, I put a star next to the ones I changed

I am the guy that people look up to for advice

I live my life on my terms

I will always succeed because I am always going to give my best *

I let my actions do the speaking not my words*

I have great energy and charisma so people enjoy being around me*

I am always positive

I live in the moment

I am the kind of person who helps people be their best self*

I am physically strong and I attract quality women into my life*

I learn lessons from my mistakes*

I am always there for my loved ones (added)

I am amazing and women beg me to stick my cock inside them (added)

[DJNinja]

I am funny, I know how to make people laugh
I am adaptive
I am intelligent, I can perceive things others cannot
I am interesting, people see me as a complex person
I have a classy fashion sense
I am tall and good-looking
I am a great fighter
I have a good heart

Good start

Want you to take it further though and dig a little deeper

What resonates with you that make you you- and which will you internalize


So for example

I am amazing. I believe in seeing the good in people. I see the best in people even if others don't. I inspire and encourage others to follow their aspirations.

I am funny, I know creative things to say/do to make people laugh
I am adaptive
I am intelligent, I can perceive things others cannot
I am interesting, people see me as a complex person with many angles to myself
I have a classy fashion sense
I am tall and good-looking
I am a great fighter
I have a good heart, I do good to those who do are good

I also have a general pickup question. I am back in my groove of chatting with women/making them laugh/teasing them most of the time. But I feel I cannot break through this and begin to generate real attraction, get numbers, get hookups, and get what we all really want in the end. What do you guys suggest I start doing?

Great job for the revision. To answer your pickup question, have you developed a routine stack?

I don't really know which ones to tie together with each other, and many times my head is a mess and I will jumble one and screw it up. I'll get an opener off, but not like I wanted to. Then beyond that I do not know... So I end up reverting to just socializing.

Do this:

This weekend, pick an opener that you like doing and/or is congruent with you. Use it EVERY time until you dial in the words and delivery. It will be awkward the first few times but eventually it will click. Once the words and delivery come easy, you can start focusing on other things like body language, tonality, kino, etc. After delivering the opener, eject if you're not feeling it, or stack forward into conversation. Open at least 30 sets with this opener this weekend. Then write a Field Report on it.

Then next weekend (assuming that you are very comfortable with the opener), use the same opener and stack into a DHV routine (like a cold read, a DHV story, etc.). My favourite is Rings Routine, but if you have one that's comfortable and congruent with you, use that. Again, open 30 sets, stack into the DHV routine, then eject or go into conversation. Then write a FR about it.

Then the week after, stack into a qualification routine, and so on and so forth until you're very comfortable with the routine stack that you've built.

The best thing about this small-chunking is that you deliberately build on your base skill each week until you're solid, and you get to experience every reaction to these routines that girls throw at you.

Looking forward to the FRs!

30 sets! I'll try hard but I don't see myself hitting that high! And I thought getting in 15 sets by the end of this week was going to be a challenge. kk I will try 30 and see how far I go...

Add this to your Affirmations: "I open 30 sets very easily"

[DJNinja]

Take 2, I put a star next to the ones I changed

I am the guy that people look up to for advice

I live my life on my terms

I will always succeed because I am always going to give my best *

I let my actions do the speaking not my words*

I have great energy and charisma so people enjoy being around me*

I am always positive

I live in the moment

I am the kind of person who helps people be their best self*

I am physically strong and I attract quality women into my life*

I learn lessons from my mistakes*

I am always there for my loved ones (added)

I am amazing and women beg me to stick my cock inside them (added)

Great job with the revisions, just a couple more changes to tweak

I will always succeed because I am always going to give my best *

Remove "will" so it reads "I always succeed because I always give my best"

I am the kind of person who helps people be their best self*

Perfect!

I am amazing and women beg me to stick my cock inside them (added)

This is my favourite. You certainly are amazing!

Great job! Now remember to print a copy out, post it on your bathroom mirror, and repeat it out loud every morning and before you go out!

[romanianmmaguy]

I am funny, I know creative things to say/do to make people laugh
I am adaptive
I am intelligent, I can perceive things others cannot
I am interesting, people see me as a complex person with many angles to myself
I have a classy fashion sense
I am tall and good-looking
I am a great fighter
I have a good heart, I do good to those who are good, to those who are not, good luck!
I open 30 sets very easily!!!

[DJNinja]

I am funny, I know creative things to say/do to make people laugh
I am adaptive
I am intelligent, I can perceive things others cannot
I am interesting, people see me as a complex person with many angles to myself
I have a classy fashion sense
I am tall and good-looking
I am a great fighter
I have a good heart, I do good to those who are good, to those who are not, good luck!
I open 30 sets very easily!!!

Looks great! Now print a copy out, post it on your bathroom mirror, and repeat it out loud every morning and before you go out!

[romanianmmaguy]

Thanks for another session of life therapy everyone!!! I am eager and trigger happy to go out tomorrow now, I hope this mood lasts!

[Ice]

Thanks for another session of life therapy everyone!!! I am eager and trigger happy to go out tomorrow now, I hope this mood lasts!

Glad we could help!

[Monteray]

yeah guys, thanks for this whole series...

it really helped me

[Ice]

Bump - for all the guys that participated in this - Post your updates as to where you are today here:

http://bravopua.com/phpbb/viewtopic.php?f=18&t=8927