what the fuck is wrong

[stone]

Ya being young and assuming you both still live with your parents meeting them will happen sooner rather then later.

Look here my son, the birds and they bees... girls and boys cuddle (which you've already done), they hold hands, they flirt, they kiss, they have fellatio and cunnilingus, and they fuck a lot to and occasionally in the butt. Its what we do... if you have the balls to reach out and seize those moments. But you've gotta have the courage to do it. Your heart with race your palms will probably get a bit sweaty and its probably gonna be awkward as fuck... but do it anyways.

[DJNinja]

I know i need to kiss her, i am dying to, i am sure she is too. I need to just do the thing where you "triangulate" such a stupid fucking word lol. And then you put your hand on her forehead and move her hair to the side while slowly move down her cheek, and then your fingers hit her chin and go up, super slowly and put your thumb on her lips, and slowly go in for it. and if she says no, which wont happen, i go "shhhhh" and put my finger against her lips and kiss her.

You're entirely overthinking this. Just like SD & stone said, just go in and kiss her. If she really is into you like you said she is, she's been expecting this kiss for a long time. So just do it. It doesn't have to be perfect; what matters is that it's done.

And remember: just because she rejects the kiss the first time doesn't mean that it's a "No"...it usually means "Not yet"--in other words, she's not comfortable yet, so take a step back, build more comfort and go for it again later on.

I met her 2 months ago today, she told me that last week. she was like, "Did you know we met on Aug. 9?" i said something i forgot. This was about 7 hrs after we cuddled earlier that day. We have long phone calls our on average call is from 3 to 3.5 hrs, roughly at least twice a week. Sunday the 6th, it was 10 mins short of 6 hrs. I love talking to her and hanging out with her.

You've known her for two months, spent A LOT of time on the phone (average call is 3-3.5 hrs), hung out with her extensively, cuddled.

And you still haven't made your move to kiss her?

My gut tells me that you've been friendzoned already. The ONLY way to know for sure is to make your move NOW to see where you stand with her. Ask her out on a proper date, isolate her, kiss her, escalate and push it to see how far you can go.

The longer you wait, the more likely you'll fall further into the friendzone frame (since a true alpha would have made his move A LONG time ago).

And like I said before, better to find out now that she no longer sees you as a potential sexual partner and just a friend, so you can move on and hit on other girls, rather than find out down the road that she fucked some random guy whom she just met, just because that guy had the BALLS to kiss her and turn her on sexually instead of spending hours on the phone talking. And THAT will fucking HURT.

[StudMuffin308]

Fuck the friendzone!!! I fucking hate it! BWAHHHH!

Well, next time i see her, i am going to fucking do it. Nothing to worry about, she says she likes me, what do i have to lose? And if worst comes to worst, i can seek other female activity in my school, then again aids and ghetto chicks arent my thing.

I am the only one holding myself back from success. I have waited too long, and i am not going to let it slip. Next time is game time. Youre right DJNinja, i am other thinking this, lol. Its a fucking kiss.

Anyways, you can suspect that next time i see her, within an hour of dropping her off or what not, ill have a fresh new FR on here, describing how fuckin happy i am:) So with that advice. And that motivation. What am i waiting for? Lol, i love you guys, no homo.

Ill keep you all posted:)

Aaron B.

[Guilty Pleasure]

You need to go and kiss her ASAP. And stop having these self doubting thoughts full your head. If you keep having them I can guarantee it will effect your relationship and will probably kill it.

The doubts will manifest themselves and then you will start Turning into a needy bitch...

Live in the now and go show this girl a good time.

Men take what they want and run with it

Boys are timid and shy about it.

Which one will you be?

K.C.