Ice wrote:
Sorry Smooth - thought about that and added more info after my first post.
I used to see her 3-5 times a week, we haven't had a lot of talk about our relationship until recently when she met my parents and got along so well. Then we started seeing each other every day.
I haven't told her about this pulling back thing at all. I've written a post about my update on this one but it's quite long.
I still don't understand the situation. It sounds like you broke up with her for some reason I don't understand. Because you cheated on her? I thought you said that you had a non-exclusive relationship.
You were in love with her, I think I read, so I'm not blaming you for not being to express yourself clearly. It can be really difficult to get a grip on these types of things.
I suggest first thing is to decide if it's really over. If it is, make a clean break. Tell her that you need a clean break with no contact because that's how you are going to get over it.
Thanks for doing this. I just had a question about night game vs day game routines since I'm trying to incorporate a lot more day game to get additional practice.
Do you find that openers and routines such as the 5oceans stack work as well during the day compared to night? If not then how do you adjust your game from night to day?
Ice wrote:
Sorry Smooth - thought about that and added more info after my first post.
I used to see her 3-5 times a week, we haven't had a lot of talk about our relationship until recently when she met my parents and got along so well. Then we started seeing each other every day.
I haven't told her about this pulling back thing at all. I've written a post about my update on this one but it's quite long.
I still don't understand the situation. It sounds like you broke up with her for some reason I don't understand. Because you cheated on her? I thought you said that you had a non-exclusive relationship.
You were in love with her, I think I read, so I'm not blaming you for not being to express yourself clearly. It can be really difficult to get a grip on these types of things.
I suggest first thing is to decide if it's really over. If it is, make a clean break. Tell her that you need a clean break with no contact because that's how you are going to get over it.
No, didn't cheat. Non-exclusive, so I'm allowed to see other people (but she's only with me).
I don't want to break up. Re-reading that thread now that my head is clearer, I'm seeing a lot of things I can change = can't believe I said that to her and posted that in the first place. But I did.
I gave her space. I think I am holding on too tight on this one and need to chill out for awhile.
