9/30/2013--Smoothcall Here tonight and I'm not going away!

[Smoothcall]

I'm here again tonight 9/30/13 7:00 PM Pacific with my Live Coaching Thread.

Post questions. I answer them.

You can start posting now. I'll answer starting in about 45 minutes.

[GSR]

wait whats going on with flashchats?

[DJNinja]

Relationship Game Question: whenever your girl gives you LMR/excuses not to have sex (e.g. "I'm tired," "I'm not in the mood," "I gotta wake up early"), and you want to have sex, what have you done to overcome her hesitance and get her in the mood?

[Ice]

Relationship Game Question: whenever your girl gives you LMR/excuses not to have sex (e.g. "I'm tired," "I'm not in the mood," "I gotta wake up early"), and you want to have sex, what have you done to overcome her hesitance and get her in the mood?

Know this is smoothcall's thread but if i could


I would take this as huge red flag - if happening consistently, especially constantly.

It's not about just cavemanning anymore - there's something more there, and I ask whether she's losing interest and maybe being more distant


Are you being too available to her, are you supplicating and not knowing? Are you the man she was attracted to in the beginning?


After reflecting about my ex, I am realizing I changed course away from the man I wanted to be. But it wasn't until days of pain that I got there... hope this might save you some pain brother. I will do a write up in a separate thread but touching on some things I just went through

[Ice]

Also, what I've done to that works for me

when she says she's tired... say "Yea, I don't want to sex tonight." Why? "Just not in the mood."

Flip the script, but also show low interest it in and it will get her guessing -(if she still gives a fuck).