Live Coaching Thread w/DJNinja and Ice - DONE!

[Ice]

Gotta run guys, thanks DJ and ICE for hosting another flashchat. See you next week.

Great having you on here with us again king. See you next week!

[Nomad]

I'm going to assume that you're in an exclusive relationship right now, and that you defined your terms and expectations long ago. If you didn't, then this is your source of the problem: you're expecting to be social and have platonic female friends, and she doesn't think you should.

So assuming that you set expectations and terms beforehand:

Your girlfriend got irrationally jealous with you, since you weren't doing anything to egg the girl on. You were simply being the fun, awesome, social you.

So you need to address this NOW. Talk it over with your girlfriend, tell her that it's bothering you and that you didn't appreciate that she got all jealous over nothing.

Don't wait; this will happen again. And it will be even more overblown and more drama.

She'll probably blow up, and you run the risk of losing her.

Frame it this way: if you do lose her, you'll lose someone who will ALWAYS get jealous every time you talk to a person with a vagina. And frankly, I wouldn't want to be with a girl like that, it's way too much drama for me, thankyouverymuch.

But if she decides to stay, she'll know what you're expecting and behave accordingly.

Awesome. Thank you for the response. We are exclusive & the ground rules had been laid out before. This is really the first time its happened like this.

She should know better since im going to be a medical professional in a female dominated field (shit thats how we met... at work at a hospital!)

She may or may not not blow up. I told her i was upset about he behavior and that wed talk about it. Have not had the chance yet (work/class/mismatchy schedules).

But I will lay down the hammer. It if I need to because its stupid to be having this crap start popping up after 2 years of being together. And you are totally right. I don't want to be tied down to someone who is insecure.

Short term loss for long term gain.

With guys like you for support and advice, I think id have to try and fail to attract a girl that makes me happy!

Thanks you Brothers, for your ears, time, and advice.

[DJNinja]

I'm going to assume that you're in an exclusive relationship right now, and that you defined your terms and expectations long ago. If you didn't, then this is your source of the problem: you're expecting to be social and have platonic female friends, and she doesn't think you should.

So assuming that you set expectations and terms beforehand:

Your girlfriend got irrationally jealous with you, since you weren't doing anything to egg the girl on. You were simply being the fun, awesome, social you.

So you need to address this NOW. Talk it over with your girlfriend, tell her that it's bothering you and that you didn't appreciate that she got all jealous over nothing.

Don't wait; this will happen again. And it will be even more overblown and more drama.

She'll probably blow up, and you run the risk of losing her.

Frame it this way: if you do lose her, you'll lose someone who will ALWAYS get jealous every time you talk to a person with a vagina. And frankly, I wouldn't want to be with a girl like that, it's way too much drama for me, thankyouverymuch.

But if she decides to stay, she'll know what you're expecting and behave accordingly.

Awesome. Thank you for the response. We are exclusive & the ground rules had been laid out before. This is really the first time its happened like this.

She should know better since im going to be a medical professional in a female dominated field (shit thats how we met... at work at a hospital!)

She may or may not not blow up. I told her i was upset about he behavior and that wed talk about it. Have not had the chance yet (work/class/mismatchy schedules).

But I will lay down the hammer. It if I need to because its stupid to be having this crap start popping up after 2 years of being together. And you are totally right. I don't want to be tied down to someone who is insecure.

Short term loss for long term gain.

With guys like you for support and advice, I think id have to try and fail to attract a girl that makes me happy!

Thanks you Brothers, for your ears, time, and advice.

Good luck! Let us know how it turns out.

[DJNinja]

And we're done!

[Ice]

Thanks to each one of you who came out tonight - great questions! See you next week!

[Status]

Here to wish luck and a great start for the new format - though I'm sad to see the old flashchats go. Seemed more social with those somehow.

Anyhow - either of you guys done much facebook related game? I've used mine a lot as inderect game showing off an awesome life with preselection and stuff like that, but I'm more curious about seeing a cute girl on your friends list you don't really know and opening her progressing it.

Is this a cute girl on your own friends list that you've added and never talked to?

Or, is this a girl on your friend's friend list?

And did you add her and she accepted?

TBH I have a few cute girls on my friends list I don't really know how they got there. some of em have been there for years and I just don't remember how I met them.

[Bravo]

Sorry guys i have been gone for a while, wassup with the thread style? no flash chat anymore?

This is another reason I changed this.

This is your first post.

But you've been in flashchats before?

The forum isn't 2 separate things like that. The chat was just so we could all talk in real time.

But turned into its own thing where guys just show up for that and don't do /use anything else around here. Whereas the forum is actually the best shit!!!

This will get guys more active on the forum, which has a direct affect on their learning curve.

[Bravo]

Awesome job guys

And cool to see them thanking guys that helped them along the way

BUT way cooler to see guys having a great time now that I can remember being baby ice and baby dj.

Just like bravo remembers me when I was baby bay

Haha! Baby Bay

And yep. Another reason for these. We all woke up and read this thread. Normally lost as soon as everyone logs out of the chat. All of this is still here for us to read, learn from, link to, and for others to share.

[James Bond]

Awesome. I always felt like I was missing out on FC cause I'm at work and my phone didn't mesh.
Thanks Bravo!