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The Good Wife’s Guide

The Good Wife's Guide

 

  • Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.
  • Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
  • Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
  • Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.
  • During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
  • Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.
  • Be happy to see him.
  • Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.
  • Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first – remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
  • Don’t greet him with complaints and problems.
  • Don’t complain if he’s late for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work.
  • Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.
  • Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
  • Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
  • A good wife always knows her place.

Ask the Alpha Male Episode #3

First off I want to apologize for the delay in this, the third installment of ASK THE ALPHA MALE.

I have never taken a computer class in my life, and running this blog, programming and running my NEW FORUM (just broke 101 members today) and working on my ONLINE COURSE (trying to make it awesome and different from all the other shit out there, no e-books that you never read, no waiting months for a crappy DVD to show up) is taking up WAY more time than I thought it would.

I have also been doing a ton more personal coaching, which is really what I love and why I first got into this. (three guys got laid last week)

AND of course I have been kicking my online game into overdrive so I have even more things to teach, I even signed up for MORE online dating sites and am testing those out as well as social networking sites.

Anyways, enough excuses here is episode 3

Thanks again for tuning in, and 1 change from the last episodes. For now on if you have a question you want me to answer, post it BELOW as a comment and I will answer as many as I can next week.

-Going to the Bozo the Clown book signing here in Hollywood at 4pm today with Topher. A great friend of mine, Scott McKenzie wrote it, Neil Strauss published it, make sure to say HI if you see me!

Ask the Alpha Male Episode #2

Here is the second episode of Ask the Alpha Male.

Thanks again to everyone who emailed in questions. I had to re-shoot it, the first one ended up being almost twenty minutes long, and even with this one I had to cut a question out.

This one is less about ME and full of tips and advice about how to deal with a wingman that is messing your shit up, one of the best things I ever purchased for my place, my favorite gun, and how to deal with a chick who keeps texting you but never follows thru on setting up a date.

Let me know what you guys think, and anything you want more or less of.

I am going to start picking questions for the 3rd vid soon, so email soon if you want to try and get it answered next week- BravoPUA@gmail.com with the subject line ASK THE ALPHA MALE.

Ask the Alpha Male Episode #1

I was almost overwhelmed with all the questions I received from you guys (and a few girls) last week when I wrote about a new feature I am going to have each week.

ASK THE ALPHA MALE

I thought I would be lucky to get a handful, so thank you to everyone who emailed me, and if I didn’t pick you this time, feel free to resubmit.

I was able to get thru a few questionsin this first video, and also a little bit about my background, why I got into Pick Up, how I started working for Neil Strauss, and what qualifies me as an ALPHA MALE

The questions I picked are about how to choose between 2 girls, if marital arts help your game, and more-

I hope everyone enjoys it, and if you have a question you want me to try and respond to next week email me at BravoPUA@gmail.com with the subject line ASK THE ALPHA MALE