Haven't posted in a while. Got married, and I seperated from her separated a few months ago, but I bounced back quickly. I'm 23, I've been involved in the community for about 7-8 years. Getting back into it slowly. TL;DR at the bottom
So this girl, HBLes, is someone who I met through a mutual friend about two weeks ago. She is very verbal about her sexuality being ONLY women to most people. I started hanging out with her and said mutual friend, as they are roomates, and we starting hanging out quite a bit. I ended up getting semi-involved with a girl who HBLes happens to like as well, HBbad. Things didn't go as planned, as HBbad hated the fact that me and HBLes did a tad bit of drugs together, so she stopped being in the picture pretty quick, but not before telling HBLes not to fuck me.
The first night we hang out, I end up passing out in her bed, nothing happens.THEN LAST NIGHT, we go out bar hopping, trying to figure out some shit to do and end up having a blast after a shot or two. Flirtations going back and forth, kino is going smooth. Touching her hand here, her leg there, she was being compliant. After a shot or two we loosen up and she tells me how she is TECHNICALLY bisexual, with just a really hard on preference for females, overwhelmingly so. However she has to sometimes give her guy friends a talk when they start trying to basically confess for her.
We bounce back to her place, a friend calls her but she tells him shes about to pass out, but we end up going to her bed and watching a movie together. I put my arm around her, and slowly start escalating. We end up in a full cuddle position with me completely on her, but she falls asleep quickly. She ends up turning around and cuddling into my chest. I'm not a guy to try to fuck with a girl falling asleep, and I wasn't sure HOW DRUNK she actually was, so I didnt force any moves.
Today rolls around and she's more on edge. She goes with me to get food and what not, but I feel she's MORE closed off.
tl;dr HBLes went out for a few drinks with me, gave me positive vibes and compliance in kino and small signs of interest, ended up in her bed, cuddling, felt some intense vibes, but she looked mostly asleep (not 100%). The next day kind of tension between us.
I'm thinking my next move should be to wait for her to re-engage, but I don't know if I should push to escalate further next time, or what. I'm at a loss for once. Any insight is appreciated