Losing the spark

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Losing the spark

Postby sgrizz89 » Mon Sep 11, 2017 2:06 pm

I've been talking to this chick, things were going very well. We click on many levels, she's funny and cute but she is far away. We've been talking close to a month now and for the whole time it was going great, just this week we have been having a bit of an issue. She sends me sexy pics, no nudes, but stuff you definitely don't send just anyone, we've had FaceTime sex, and we joke around about sex and stuff. I'm set to go visit her in the next month, and just yesterday asked, "Would you be mad if we didn't have sex when you came?" So I got worried and had a whole discussion with her about it, admittedly a bad idea, but I wasn't sure how to handle that. We still are talking and I'm trying to save face but not sure what exactly to do and looking for advice.
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Re: Losing the spark

Postby Stephen » Thu Sep 14, 2017 3:18 pm

long distance stuff in general is difficult

when you arent there, it is all fantasy, but once you arrive, then it will be real

and her bringing up maybe not having sex= red flag. But best way to handle it is to just act cool and then when you are with her, let it "just happen"

Have you already had sex with her?

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